Now here is the problem - I am not afraid to approach girl/girls when there are not people around, but for example at the bus stop, in the centre of the city, I just feel weird to do it. Everyone is silent, everyone does their own, I already stand out with my clothing and posture and then if I would approach some girls and started trying pickup stuff, I think that other people will listen and start thinking stuff about me. It's just that nobody does that. Only people who approach random strangers on street ar those who want to sell religious books. I am just very cautinous about my PR as our country is pretty small and eventually everyone knows everyone. I don't want to be "that guy". Any tips?

What are you thinking when YOU are walking down the street?

"Oh shit, I have to get to the bus stop!"

"Man I'm hungry, what's there to eat around here?"

"Hmmm, where's a nice place I can buy some new clothes?"

You need to break that train of thought, and go from there.


You have to keep in mind when people are in the city, its not to pickup. Its for other reasons. that's the CRUCIAL difference between that and a club. Clubs, people are expecting to be talked to.

I'm not going to suggest anything, coz there's way too much shit out there (and im not really an expert on this)

But, at least you now have something to work with