How would you guys sarge in a foreign country when you can't speak the language?

I'm planning to go to Taiwan and/or Japanese in the Fall. However, I'm not fluent in Mandarin and I don't speak a lick of Japanese.

I hear people say that girls there dig guys that can speak English. But, how the hell would you game these girls? How would you open, build rapport, DHV, etc? Or is it just a matter of kino kino kino?

Thanks

It's very fucking difficult to game foreign chicks, particularly Asians as it is an entirely different culture. I've been in mainland China for a year now and I still haven't quite figured it out.

Attraction is easy--almost too easy. You will constantly have women telling you you are handsome (unless you are actually butt fucking ugly). Just being Western, being fairly good looking, and being normal (not utterly submissive like most Asian men) will be enough for strong attraction.

Building rapport and escalating, on the other hand, is difficult. In fact, I find that when people tell me I am so handsome, it tends to break rapport, and put me on a different level from the women. I mean, even really, really good looking women tell me I look cool or handsome--and it just fucks things up. My recommendation, and it is pretty counter intuitive, is to actually compliment them LOT and do it before they compliment you. You may looks some attraction and value in their eyes, but it builds a much stronger rapport. Assuming you are like me, you will have oodles of attraction to spare.

How you game the women is strongly dependent on how well they can speak English. If they are moderate to low level speakers of English, do away with subtlety and most humor. Make your intentions clear. They won't get innuendo or little jokes and will missing certain inflections in your voice that suggest it is playful. For example, I use a lot of deadpan humor in my jokes, and if I were to say "You know, I understand you are trying to get in my pants, but you have to buy me a few drinks first", they would get extremely defensive and even angry, rather than play along. It's really hard to just banter with them.

The ones who speak English a little better, are easier to joke and banter with, but keep it light and obvious. If you can make it clear early that you are a joking sort of person, then it works better.

If you have any specific question, I'll tell you what I know from my experience.

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