My Kiss close problem...

I walked into maccas extremely stoned and as i enter i see a few groups around but one catches my fancy, a group with a 7 and a 10 that looks semi-drunk...
Before i order my meal i begin polling, quizzing, negging and building keno 2 on the 2, this is centered around the new burger, they reveal they haven't tried it and they are waiting for their girlfriend to get back from overseas before they do... i decide to get this new burger. I order my meal, naturally inspired most of the employee's to burst out laughing a few times caused by my bright wit...
I walk back and smile as they catch my eye, and so i go over and sit on the table next to them and say hello again, they noticed my stoned state and we share our regard to drugs with one and other... the 10 is being pretty loud and im ignoring her slightly yet still keeping eye contact and using some simple nlp with both of them... i make a few further negs on her and we ended up all just chatting for about 1 hour, they express their wish for my number and as i walk out i offer them a ride home, they accept and we chat and sing along to songs n i neg them back to their seperate places... i kinda chickened out of attempt of a kiss close on the 7 after i dropped the 10 bcause i didnt wanna ruin my chances with the, number closed instead, and arranged to catch up with both of them again 2 days later...
2 days later, (i'll try to be more brief-)
we were going to go out clubbing but we didnt end up as they were kinda tired, but wanted to come over and have a smoke instead , we didnt end up smoking at my house but got very ripped and shared some awesome discussions throughout me negging, kino and dhv etc the 7 came as well and was very zoned out so it was just me and the hb hitting it off...
fastforward abit and it their was a sexual tension in the air... after i drop the 7 home (this time first, as she was tired) me and the 10 get to outside her house... and we are chatting but i can feel i probably could kiss her... yet as she probably gets impatiant she says she should be going and she leans in for hug/kiss and again i bcome pissed at myself for missing that opertunity of one of the kiss closes i have used...

my question and problem: do you think this goodnight fuck up could put us in the friends category (supposing she thinks that i just want to be friends cause i didnt kiss her).. do you think i can recover from this, (honestly i was still quite stoned and really thirsty and very dry mouth and a kiss at the time was not on my mind till i realised i could have) does anyone know any simple techniques for getting over kiss close anxiety?
ive been finding it hard ever since i had a 6 month break cause i was sick/depressed/sorting shit in life out... after that ive still been confident with approach and the general sarge... but the kiss close has sadly been eluding me and ive just been going with a more friendly alternative... or do you think its just a fear of rejection thing, a fear of ruining even a platonic relationship... im thinking its a kind of fear of rejection or of messing up, yet it doesnt happen when i just open etc. its only as it esculates... I think i try to play it too cool, cocky and funny but then i worry that if i go for the kiss and it wasnt right (although i really know it was and then regret it later) and it will ruin the sitch

Sorry for the long post!
sorry for the somewhat strange description of events etc.
Please give your thoughts.

Lol im not even sure where to begin but the thing that immediately stood out was that you were EXTREMELY STONED. You can NEVER be really stoned or really drunk and expect to practice decent game. If you really need to do it, do it in minimally as its def gonna fuck with your rational thinking. Since your just starting out its normal to find and use methods like smoking and drinking to get over AA (i still drink on occasions to make myself feel a little better ) but its something that takes practice and more practice to overcome. Keep going out and trying everything...learn from your mistakes and keep trucking. Thats the best way to learn.

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Hey man,

I got the same prob.

I think its only inside ur head though, if you get that far the last inch shouldnt be a problem. Anyway, i know, easier said than done.

My mistake is that I only want 'sure' kiss-close potential, what usually results in waiting for a perfect moment..which almost never comes

Good luck

Hey man... Just in case if you miss an opportunity like that again by a small mistake, you can always recover from it by saying instantly "No kissing this early...", it will bring up your value and make her want you even more

Or then when she leans in, you could just turn your head and point to your cheek lol... I love to do like that, when shes about to kiss on the cheek, I turn my head back and then accuse her of kissing me LOVE IT!

If you don't turn you head fast enough and miss the chance, say "the french style" and turn your other cheek to her and point at that one too.. Now, be faster to turn your head than the last time!

Good luck