should the approach be the same or is it different? i feel like if anything i would have to work a little bit harder to land one and the average white girl isn't looking for a relationship with a 5'5 filipino guy. there is a couple of options i am looking at, one girl average blonde works at hooters and the other is the athletic girl in a spin class at the gym, I am leaning more towards the one at the gym. i know a master pua wouldn't think twice about his ethnicity and I know am far from that. ADVICE, MOTIVATION, ANYTHING PLEASE!

I'm a short Korean guy, about 5'5'' (I think) and I've laid and dated white girls. My "official" girlfriends in the past have only been blondes.

I was sarging in Seoul, South Korea for 2 weeks just a couple weeks ago. This Korean girl I was gaming was telling me something along the lines of, "you must be pretty popular with the ladies," and speaking in ways that presupposed that I had a bunch of ex-girlfriends.

I told her, "How can you just assume that I've had girlfriends before? I'm very inexperienced with girls. I'm very shy and I'm scared of girls. In fact, I'm saving myself for marriage!" Of course, I was joking. In fact, it was very funny. I couldn't contain my laughter.

We went onto a conversational thread about my past relationships and I mentioned the fact that all the girls I have "officially" been bf/gf with have been blonde.

"Wow, really? I have heard that in American culture, it is very difficult for an Asian guy to get with a white, blonde girl," she told me with an inquisitive look on her face. I then went on to talk about something we in the PUA community harp on relentlessly... LIMITING BELIEFS.

I said... "In America, I've found that the only way to succeed in to just do what you want to do, pursue the dreams and goals you have, without listening to all those people who tell you that you can't do this or that. You know how you hear all of these stereotypes that make you feel like you can't do something? Well, to attain success, I just ignore all that shit and just work hard to go for what I want. That's how I succeed."

I think I left her better than I found her.

hahahaha lol I would think so chief and thats the whoel point to leave her better than you found her. I am puertorican 5'6 and funny thing is most of my GF's has been white and thoguh it wasnt really through the PUA ways it still wasnt like OMG UR NOT WHITE GO AWAY LOL