hey all, second thread ive started after the intro.. but felt i had to get this off my chest a bit

i just finished The Game like thousands out there.. and after reading etc.. it is your game and how you apply it isnt it? I ask from personal experience because tbh, i think ive had a pretty decent life so far (19 in oz btw) except in 2 areas.. my weight and social skills (although the worst is women approach)

ive been slightly overweight all my life and i am changing that now, ive set a target that im sticking to. And when it comes to women.. my bro is a natural 3 years my age, and i felt taht when reading the game, it really applies to me.

I mean, i have good family unity and relations (reallly close with my family), really no enemies, been commented as a gentlemen by both genders alike (more by girls actually!) drive a nice car, speak spanish - apparently good with girls here in aussie neways - all these factors many have told me are killer for picking up girls.. but it hasnt worked out in all the years since my first kiss, even before and after, i knew there was something missing and its my game.. it was non-existant. I feel like joining this community will shoot me up..

i guess the main point im trying to get to is that its all about ur approach and game, regardless of exernal factors - yes they may help - but if u dont have the foundation (game) none of it can be put to good use right? like they say.. knowledge is power when applied

Hey man, i also read the game maybe this past august and it i can honestly say it's a book that changed my life. Although at the time i put a lot of effort into DHV/controlling frame/negging and what not....(outer game) what i've found out to be A LOT less stressful is to work on your inner game. Just have a solid frame that no one can break and you'll be happier about life overall.

All i know is since that realization(somewhat recently) i've become a lot self centered/grounded with myself. The way i see it.....it's good if you cause other people to react, but try to remain grounded so you are less effected by other people.

Say you're walking a long the path minding your own business just looking around and some HOTTIE turns the corner and starts toward you, it was like a check list: Don't stare/relaxed EC, make sure you're walking/looking alpha, hold your head up, swing your arms, etc etc etc. This is clearly ME being reactant to HER. This only fucks up your so called "confidence"...truly being confident is at all times being as you would be in your living room, relaxed, deep slow breaths, slow deliberate movements, etc.

Inner game is key.