Ok, Id first like to say Thank you for any response this post gets, This is my first post here.

Ill make this story as simple as i can, Im 23 live in LA.
I went to a party back in my hometown (150 miles east) on may31st.
Met a chick who was 19, she told me to visit her @ her job the next day, I did. Got her # and I went back home to la. All last week she texted me @ least 500 txts. We didnt know much about each other, so most of the txts were questions.... anyways. after all week, we plan a date for saturday (7th). I pick her up (from her parents home)... she looks HOT!., we goto dinner, during dinner she is txtin her gf's and giggling alot.. Eventually we finish and go see a movie @ the theater. During the movie her arms are crossed and she is STILL txtin her friends...(drove me nuts). towards the end of movie, I made a move to hold her hand , she held it for about 20 secs , then pulled away very quick and smiled at me.. Movie ended, we walked to my car, kinda chit chating. I take her home, we roll up and she waits & i wait, weird moment for about a min. I want to kiss her , but I dont want that rejection again like the hand holdin incident. So i say well I had a great night, she says the same, and gets and out. . We txted goodnite later on... Next day i get a txt that she had a great time, but just wants to be friends..I didnt respond. still havent. ... Its been 4 days and no txts from her ......what would you guys do?... move on ?

From reading this, I can see that you jumped through atleast one hoop. She told you to go visit her at work and you did. Its okay to jump through hoops, but only when you've made her jump through a couple of yours first.

Also, in the car it sounds like you and her both wanted the kiss. And then when you didn't go for it, that's where it went wrong. Girls want guys who are alpha. I didn't get the impression that you were very alpha. *shrug* That's my two cents.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

Sorry dude, she sees you as friend material and not as boy-friend material. Too nice, lack of initiative, didn't hold her attention. Move on to the next girl, she's nothing special.

Next time, tell the chick to cut it out with the texting while on the date. The most exciting stuff happening in that moment should revolve around you and her, not her and her friends 20 minutes away on a computer.

If you are new to the PUA scene, I suggest reading up on some literature then applying it on your dates. Search up the Venusian Arts Handbook by Mystery, or for a good read try "The Game" by Neil Strauss.

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Yeah, I can tell I wasnt very aggressive with her. I should have been more alpha,, But what i didnt include was that i was married for 3 years prior to this and well its been a while since Ive been on a date..(skills a bit rusty) A buddy of mine told me to get "the game", in which i did get this past monday. Been reading it ever since, and I wish I had read this before the date. Things may have been different.
Thanks for the input though. !!!