So I don't consider myself a PUA. Really I haven't learned any techniques or anything like that. I just do what I have always done, just with more confidence now. Not that I wouldn't like to learn everything that this community has to offer. I'm just not willing to pay for it.

So I have picked up three girls this week and possibly a forth when I see her again this week, which is getting difficult to manage. On Friday I went out with one girl and spent the day at her house... it was the first day I had seen her outside of the club I met her at. So after that I came home and another girl was asking me to come out with her on Sat. night for a couple of drinks. This girl is extremely hot and I had already received a little help from some of you on how I should act with her as she was initially giving me the cold shoulder. So I said I would go out with her the next night, breaking plans with the girl from that day to do so; I told her that I was going to Amsterdam for the night with friends instead.

So on Sat. I went out with the HB 10, who I am starting to wonder if she may be a stripper. So I went to the club which is a chilled place and good for a couple of quieter drinks before the parties start at 1am, and met her at 11. She brought a friend along with her, which I don't mind at all because I am good with friends. So we are hanging out having a few drinks when suddenly I feel something sharpe in my back. No it wasn't a knife, although that might have hurt less. But in fact it was the girl from the previous day and her four friends glaring at me as I flirted with my hand on the lower back of this other girl.

Long story short the situation got really sticky and I bailed out of the club.

What I learned that I think everyone should take from this is:
1. Don't lie to the girls about what you want. Tell them the truth about your situation.
2. Don't go to a club with a girl for a first meeting.
3. Don't pee into the wind

I didn't know HB10's existed?

You haven't met my ex-girlfriends.

Eeeek!

Your tips are good ones!

Being honest is a good start - start down the rocky road of fibbing/lying and it's hard to know where the truth ends and the lies start.

I would have told the HB10 I'm busy that night - hindsight is a wonderful thing ain't it?

One thing I've learned is never change your plans. Plan to meet 1 girl at one time in one place and stick to it. Otherwise you will be forever changing you plans, etc for the next best thing.

Also, if you were to be honest and say "can't do tonight as I'm going out with a friend" - you'd be playing a little hard to get. If the HB10 sees you at the club with the other girls, she can't be jealous as they are your "friends" and makes you look even better to have girls hanging round you!!

Ah. Really like the point about saying I can't do it cause I'm going out with friends. Thanks. i will definitely use that one next time.

Hehe, bummer! But congrats on the 3 girls in a week (and of course a HB10!). Awesome, keep it up.