ive looked around and this is insane! i can have any woman that i want, where do i sign on? it looks like a lot to grasp, where should i start? anybody willing to show me the ropes for a bit, im not slow so i wont be a huge burden

Hey Ruah, welcome to the forums. Where to start? Tell us a bit about yourself, your past experiences with women and whatnot. Also, check out some reading material on the various methods which have been published and try them out, then stick with what works for you. Then you can build yourself up and develop your skills based on your experiences. When starting out it helps to look back at things you've done wrong in the past, analyse them and figure out why they went wrong, so you can avoid repeats in future. And remember, you don't always have to make mistakes in order to learn from them. Look at others experiences and learn from those aswell.

Welcome dude, read up on mystery, gunwitch and style. Most of that forms the basics of PU.

However, don't be confused by the fact that some of gunwitch and mysteries stuff oppose each other. Gunwitch teaches upfront full Pick up, where as mystery is more playful in style, but the two can be combined (that's what I did).

Just take it day by day, and the community will be here to help you, feel free to pm me if you want to talk a bit more in depth about getting started up.