hey guys,

First of all i just want to say that i'm so impressed with this forum and how well everybody gets along, as well as the comraderie shown. I'm yet to see any pay outs or put downs, so great to see.

Anyway to the point. I have been friends with a girl for quite a while but she lives in another state. We talk alot on the internet and txt messages. She has really low self esteem and always talks to me about her guy problems. The things is i find her to be gorgeous and would love to tap that. I'm basically in the friend zone but she says things that make me think there might be something for e.g the other day she said "I wish you were my boyfriend, you'd never be horrible".. and toying with the idea of hooking up or more, once i told her i hated her playfully and she replied with "i hate you too" then i said "so is it time for make up sex yet?" i was expecting a shocked offended reply... so i quickly wrote back "just joking" as i sent it she replied with "yeah why not" so then i just looked like a douche.. or an AFC (did i use that right?)

So anyway she is coming to my area in a couple of weeks and was wondering if there was anything i could do no (leading up) and when she gets here to maybe get a little action... keeping in mind she might only be here for a week. I'm really overweight and don't really have a confident problem.. but im immediately put in the friend zone by every girl i speak to.

Anyway thanks for your time guys.

you need to show her your sexual interest in her. If you don't show it, she will assume its not there and move on.

I would suggest making some jokes to heighten sexual tension. Just watch her body language and other silent messages to make sure she's okay with how you're joking. And do a lot of kino.

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thanx hopeless romantic... is there anywhere i can read about effective kino techniques?

kino-routine-vt5373.html

That sounds like a good one. It sounds like you're already in the comfort stages with her. I would take it slow with this one. Don't start out with it. Start with maybe a hug when you meet. If you can look into palm reading before you meet her and do a little of that. Just start slow and work your way up. Good luck! I know you'll do great!

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.