Im only 14, have a girlfriend. Yet I would like to make things a lil more interresting. I just posted a topic and I got replys that really helped. Now that I know what im going to do, I wanna know if you guys think it is the right thing to do or not. Ok so what I had in mind, i think i should hangout with her less (this is a brand new girlfrind btw) stop being so touchy and whenever i see her in the hall way try and make the convo between me and her shorter and try talking to other people a lil more... i dont know what do you think i should do over all? oh and my friend had brought up a good point, he said that i shouldnt try fixing something thats not broken. thats not what im trying to do i just want to have some more fun...

any help or advise would be awesome, thanks

You're wise beyond your age.

Don't buy her flowers (it's something I used to do when I thought I was capable of love )

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Bro, you are 14 years old, no offense but what exactly do you want from this? I am assuming the girl is 14 too?

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What do you want to happen to make things more fun? You said she's a brand new girl friend. If you're alpha then you need to make things more fun and then she will follow suit.
honestly, I don't see this as doing anything to make things more interesting. Its only going to punish her when she didn't do anything wrong. And then she will think you're a jerk and break up with you.

The rules of a relationship are different then the rules of the game.
Though I agree with ace I must disagree as well. In my experience women love the little things. They love flowers and that sort of thing. But you don't want to shower them with it. Do it when YOU feel like it. Not because she asked, or you want to show her how much you care about her. Do it because YOU want to make her feel good. Be spontaneous with it.

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yeah you have to be more specific with what you mean by more fun. if you mean fun as in , go to an amusment park but if you mean fun as in , then good question. i never did things like that when i was 14, not that i didnt want to, but since you guys are so young, i suggest take it slow with whatever you wana do and dont freak her out.