Im 14, and new to the whole serious relationship Thing. I mean sure im 14 but as I move on I find it is getting more difficult to fine women that is right and actually will like me. Some of the problem is that more guys are getting in the game now. It used to be smooth sailing, now I have to work for it. I recently just started dating a girl that I have liked for a little over two years now. I have dated other girls since but most of the other relationships fail because of something stupid. I dont really want the relationship I am in now to go down the drain like all the others, so if you could set me up with a few pionters that would really help. All I really wanna do is get her hooked on to me. Another thing, she is considered "prude" and I was wondering if you guys could help me out with that as well...

Any assistance would be really helpfull - Thanks

A prude girl at 14 is somebody that has not lowered their defenses to the world. There are two ways to deal with that, and of which one is ethical and one is evil.

So if you don't want to ruin the relationship, then I suggest it's going to be slow progress.

This is a very general question and in essance your asking how to keep a girl attracted to you throughout a relationship. Its a long one to answer and books are written on it and my best advice is that you find some reputable books in building and maintaining interest.

One not from this camp of PUA that I feel is the defining book on keeping women attracted in relationships and winning at their games is called "the system"

Check out Mystery method too it has good advice in it regarding interest.

Regardless remain a challenge, don't chase her unless she deserves it, keep it interesting, if your the guy that always says YES YES YES to what a woman wnats learn to say no once in a while if ur the opposite (meathead) say yes once in a while.

Most importantly for the first 2 months of ur relationship u need to see that as a probation period where she has to prove herself to you. In The system they call this 60 day challenge, only hang with her once a week, don't give her any presents and don't smother her. Remain a hardcore challenge so u keep her chasing you.

After the probation period you can reward her with "flowers just because" ... chicks love getting stuff just because. And I'd recommend you try to take her to 1 fun date/evening at least once every month.

First few days remain somewhat of a mystery learn everything about her and keep yourself somewhat mysterious.

Do not say I love you until she says she loves you.

Never ask for a date when you are on one.

Minimize the phone in the beginning of the realtionship except only for setting up dates and some short Cocky Funny talk.

Keep the beginning dates light and simple.

Do not get black-out drunk around her. I know far to many guys who lost a girlfrined by getting faced and then being a dick or the opposite a pansy and opened their hearts to a girl way to prematurely. Including myself, this is sorta my own personal rule from 10 years of dating.

She should initiate as much sexual contact as you. Learn self control. Sex is a barometer for the relationship. You might have to move at her pace for a while if shes prude, but wha do u expect shes prob like 14-15. She won't sleep with u until she feels a deep emotinoal connection. Mystery method is good for learning to build this. Asking her deep questions that identifies her soul and qualities will open this path for you.

Don't get jealous - harder said then done but don't show her ur weak, if she does thinks to make u jealous then u can either do them back to her, or tell her if she does it again ur out. Be firm.


Honestly read Mystery method and the system. MM will greatly help you with dealing with women, building rapport, and picking up chicks. System will teach u how to dominate relationships.

Yeah let her set the pace, don't do the get her drunk and take advantage of her which i presume is the evil one lol.

Anyways prob about 6-9 months she'll come around that was my experience and my friends in high school.