Hey guys.

I picked up a girl on the tube a few months back and things have been going well. I have decided to exclusively date her and phased out the other girls I was seeing.
The other night she told used the phrase 'I really like you' in a very genuine way. Whats the best way to tell a girl that without using those actual words and losing your value/souding like an AFC?

Any opinions?

I know.

That's the only way to ever respond to that statement.

You have the idea, I think, that in order for the relationship to work you need to say this at some point. To take it to another level? There is no other level, except AFC levels.

I know some guys are going to disagree...that if you want to move to a more intimate/close/special place then it's okay. You know what? Anything is okay when you're alpha...that's the point, but let's be serious this is for you not for her...giving her Alpha is what she wants giving her goo is what you want.

Sure, tell her whatever you need to tell her, but why do you need help with that? I think they cover that on match.com. hahahahaha

u have already picked up the girl. no need to not be honest? i mean are u gonna be playing her the whole time? no. so tell her u like her too. dont get all mushy or nething but if she tells u she really likes u, u can smile at her and say i really like you too. a girl needs to feel security and that she made the right decision. now in keeping the relationship u need to have a healthy balance of time to urself and friends, and time to her. if u are too clingy thats when u turn into an AFC, but if u remain cool and have ur own life apart from her, things will go pretty well.

hope this helps

-Patience

Thanks guys.

At the time I just said 'Good' with a smile which she probably expected as thats the kind of thing i'd say. It worked out ok cos we still went back to hers