I ended up getting two girls numbers when i was really going for one girl. I used the getting a drag of a cigerette off this one girl and got into a convo with her. Her friend finally showed up and we got to talking and we ended up partyin a bit during the night. I've been texting them a bit but I've noticed that I'm always askin them what they are doing and I feel hat I may sound needy. So I am gonna try to avoid them for a bit make them want what they cant have, sound like a good idea?

Also one other question: When her friend came to join us the first thing she said was "we arent putting out" I told her "Congrats" what was that?

I also found out the friend is a bit of a slut.

Lastly I like the girl I first talked to but I feel that she just thinks I am after her slutty friend and I think the slutty girl thinks that too how can i change this?

Thanks
ZDiddy

first off congrats on getting the numbers

But with the whole texting thing i would hang back with it for a few days, this will make u seem like u have better things to do then worry about these girls and u wont look needy.

when she said "we aren't putting out" it could of course be their insecurities coming through or it could have been a shit test from them. a lot of girls have the notion that all guys wanna do is screw so u need to be the exception to that rule and not be like every other guy.

im not sure where, but on this forum their are a lot of text message openers and games that u can send so i would say start focusing on the one u want using these instead of texting both of them.

hope this helps.

-Patience

Thanks for the reply I will definetly check out the texting stuff. As for her comment maybe your right about insucerity cause I mean a girl who sleeps with a lot of guys could be insucre about herself.

Thanks agian!!