| Ok so this is from my latest blog on myspace and I'm discussing how I'm doing with my PU stills and where I'm trying to go far there.
Here I'm discussing building rapport through story telling
still trying to work magic
Ok, so as I've been discussing, I'm been trying to better my pick up skills, The efforts I've made are, reading the aclaimed "game" by Neal Strauss, reading "the natuaul art of seduction" by Richard Ruina (european) and on Ross Jefferies email newsletter, (basis for Tom Cruises character in magnolia)
It may sound stupid but as far as I'm am concerned, the Venuion arts is enriching my life, before a fellow co worker gave me the game, there was so much hate inside of me, I was a cold, bitter person, every inch of me was gripped in this bitter rage and malice that was ruining my life.
Seeing three therapist didn't do the trick.
The Venuion arts, or the pick up arts, teaches you things your friends can't teach you, that therapist can't help you with, that no women would care or understand to share with you.
So far heres what I'm trying to figure out, because as far as I'm concerned I have not done anything that you would traditionally call a pick up, but I have learned some great social dynamics that are essnesial.
We are living in a time of vast social rejection, decent guys, good looking honest guys are being turned down as girls are seemling at the very height of snobby and picky. However, in the next four years we are always going to be dealing with a vast population explosion, that some the greatest seducers of our time were not accustomed to.
I've never had a girl friend in my life, on the other hand
what girl gives a shit
no one, at all,
Yet, all girls my age have had relationships at one point or another, and really are aware and understand the dynamics of relationships, hence they would not be able to relate to someone who's 22 and has never been in one.
I don't believe that women first hand, are attached to guys for who they really are, they are attached to their darker attributes, and the venuion arts is all about tapping into the those attributes.
Start with an option opener
"who do you think is more viscous girls or guys"
build rapport from there
"so my friend is with this new girl, and in a box in his room he keeps all the photos of him and his ex inside, and his new gf wants him to get rid of it but it holds sentimental value to him"
This should create a rapport, and get her talking about the things she's interested in, because generally women think about relationships all the time, so you got to build rapport around that.
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