Hi,

There is this girl who has a boyfriend, but is really interested in me. I invited her to my place, and also some other friends, for dinner which I cooked. My interaction with this girl was great, and she was so into me,--kino, eye contact, brief hand holding. However, at the end, when the entire group went out for drinks, I made the mistake ( I think) of not holding her hand, and then inviting her back to my place, or at least getting a kiss close. I went with the group, and hit on another attractive woman just to create interest/be the alpha male. She looked very disappointed, and when my friend asked her about her boyfriend, she said that he was working in a very vague way. I think they are on the verge of a breakup.
Well, the next day we met, the chemistry was still there, but when I invited her for the group trip later in the afternoon, she said maybe. She did turn up after I had left, and ended up holding hands ( perhaps kissing) a guy who is leaving Europe tommorow. She is also going back to her city in Italy. Today morning she asked me if I wanted to join her for lunch, but not to look like a pussy who runs when she asks I refused...
I did say that we could meet up on SPAM to work on our papers together....let me know what I should do now.
And guys, my lesson from this, if the signals are there make a move!!

Cheers

Well, there really isn`t much hope if she is leaving tomorrow. You gave it a shot, looks like you found your mistakes, move on with the new knowlegde;)