Hi guys I'm new to the forum and just now beginning to explore the game. This is kind of a long question so bear with me. I have an AFC dilemma here its actually pretty funny. This girl at work recently asked me out now I really didn't find her that attractive but lets says its been awhile ya know. So I hung out with her and she came back to my place afterwards. She's a really cool girl but I just wasn't feeling her. She was very into me however and actually took care of herself in front of me. I obviously could take it to the next level if I want to but I really don't. However I gave her mixed messages. So she's been showing even more interest at work. This really wouldn't be such a big issue but there's this other girl at work an HB 8.5/9 at least.
Now my inner game is really not that good right now so instead of makin a move I basically have been staring at her and just tellin my friends how hot I think she is. Amazingly enough one of my friends from work calls me today and gives me her number. He basically told her I like her and she said she thought I was going out with the other chick. My friend assured her that I wasnt and that Im not attracted to her at all. Now my question is how do I overcome the fact that I havent said word one to this girl when I call her? On top of that how do I deal with the office rumor mill and the fallout from the other girl? This HB is breathtaking so I'm already putting the pressure on any help you could give me would be great.

You need to relax homie...

She only human...

Talk to her like if you was talking to a fat girl, only don't call her fat...

Then take from there...

Be yerself in the highest form, give negs here and there, and make her want to go out with you...

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Ok this can not be said enought

BEAUTY IS A DISTRACTION...its meant to scare you away and amke you nervous.

Conquer it by doing exactly what custom said pretend your talking to some fat chick or that chick your not interested in. be yourself and youll be fine. Although you may have some explaining to do as to why you didn't go up and get the number close

When you talk to her, you gotta be the bigger person, if she knows your that worried that she wont like you, she'll end up thinking she can do better, but only if u let her think that...so dont. play it cool, be confident, show her that shes not the only fish u got on the line.

Another idea, if this girl brings up convo about the other girl that was into you... Play that shit off... Be like, she is really cool girl and all, but I dunno how to let her down easy ya know... Then explain the situation...
Just remember this... When you finish talking about the situation yer in say this... "This always happens to me, when I meet someone that is cool with me, I end up losing a good friend, women always try to force themselves on me, then end up hating on me because I'm just focused on some other things..." Then ask her questions as to how she would want to be handled if she was that girl yer not feelings... Then you can use kino on her and let her know... "You know, because yer actually talking to me, yer really making me feel comfortable...I haven't like that in a while...Thanx..." Smile apply kino when saying this, and give her a kiss on the cheek... But remember do this only when yer time with her is over and don't give her a moment to react...Then try the freeze out with her until the next time you meet...

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Thanks fellas I love this community we're makin power moves here and your advice is invaluable.