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I will be going to Rave this saturday in S.F . I have never been to rave before,so this will be my first time.
anybody could tell me how to sarge at the rave???
Walk up to girl, dance with her for 2 seconds then kiss her. That pretty much covers it.
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1. never been there before.
In that case you should know some things. Drugs are everywhere and pretty much everyone is on drugs. Keep an eye on your drinks because there are some unsavoury people out there.
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2.i have chinese accent, not very strong but i do have it. rave music is pretty loud.
Less talk, more action. As long as you're dressed appropriately and you have cool hair and flashy things on you, girls will like you. If you approach a girl and try to talk to her at a rave it's not gonna work, on a number of levels. The main one being, people don't do that at raves. You go out and dance like a fucking wildman and you get stuck into as many girls as you can because they don't care.
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3. i am 5 ft 11. i was a wrestler, pretty big, but people say my age i look like 16!!!!!!
See above.
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4. i am good at massage. does it help at the rave?
No.
Unless it's tongue massage.
Alright so let's go over your checklist... what are you planning to wear? If you go to a rave in jeans and a shirt you will look like an alien. If you have no rave specific clothes you can't go wrong with a white hoodie and baggy jeans, but the way you're gonna be dancing is gonna make you sweat in something like that so get a kickass t-shirt. I'll trust your judgement on that... don't go overboard with the shiny shit if this is your first time, look around and take note of things people are wearing, if you think it'd suit you then look out for that kinda stuff for the next time you're shopping if you plan on going to another one.
Next is hair. Ravers have crazy hair in different colours all spiked up and shit. You can do whatever you want.... personally I think blonde looks cool on asians if it's spiked up. Keep it simple and just spike it up, don't worry if it's not your normal style cos this is a rave and nobody cares. A note on dancing... I'm not the best dancer but I can rave. It's not really a dance, more like a state of mind. Hard to describe I guess, just rave!
Just remember, everything you learned about pickup and everything you have used to success up until now goes out the window at a rave. Approach, dance, kiss. If she likes your style you'll stay together and dance for a while. And yes, you can talk while you dance but keep it light. You can't get a girl home from a rave until the whole thing is over, just trust me on this. Well, you can if you're both outside during it but it can be a little tricky. They went out to party and party they shall. Once the night is over whoever you're dancing with will talk to you about how much it kicked ass and ask where you're from etc, just chat to her a little and take her hand, tell her "come on, let's get outta here" and she'll come with you. You can run your normal game here I guess but being completely flat and telling them to come to your place with you works pretty well. I've only been to a couple of raves but they're pretty much the same as dance clubs... just easier to get girls home from for some reason, and the girls are a lot more fun.