ok, so i think all of us have this idea of the perfect "look" for a girl to have, that look that just gets you salivating from just seeing her. now here's ther question. how do some of you all broaden your "attractive" catagory. i feel like i'm limiting myself to the girls i find to fit my ideal, but i don't know how to start seeing other girls that aren't the norm for me as attractive enough to approach even just for practice. it's like they can tell when i'm not serious about it (because i'm not) and it's obvious i'm practicing. i can't seem to fully engage on them, because they just don't blow me away. i know my tastes are overly refined right now, any suggestions on how to put some more slack into the attractive catagory?

i think its juggler who imagines the better looking girls having a mole on the other side of their face or a beer belly so that it makes it easier for him to approach them. with you it sounds like you suffer with the exact opposite. you really need to get over your hang up and realise that there arnt many genuine nines or tens out there and that it really is a sea of sevens and eights except for the raritys that we hardly ever come across.

heres an excercise for you: why dont you imagine these girls when your out as your girlfriend a few months down the line and how you productively changed them to be stunning creatures. that way you can see the immediate benefits of sarging her; you will be having this great end product; this something that you have been craving for.

and if nothing comes of it at least your gaining experience under a false illusion!

i dont know what you think of that but i think you should give it a go!

good luck brother...