So I've been hooking up with two different girls on a regular basis. I've told them both that I wasn't looking for anything serious at the moment, and they at least appeared to be fine with it. I assumed that this meant they knew I wanted to be non-exclusive, but I'm having my doubts and am finding it extremely difficult to bring it up to them. Has anyone had to do anything like this? How did you break it to them and how did they react? I don't even know if i should tell them, I dont want to stop hokking up with them but I also don't want to hurt their feelings. Any advice is appreaciated. Thanks.
-Dean

personally I would have made that clear before I hooked up with them. As I'm also of lookin for the same kind of open-ended relationship / relationships.

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"Life's not a bitch, Life is a beautiful woman" -Aesop Rock

I dont know hpow you should go about telling them, but i do know u need to do something, or stop getting with one of them.
Last semester i was doing the exact same thing, and im sneaky, but i still got burned by it, and now both girls hate me lol.
And i think it totally depends on the girl on what she will say. Some dont mind, and they might have other guys too, but some think that if your hooking up with them, they deserve to know if your with someone else too.
But hey, maybe u can eventually turn it into a 3 some.

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Read some of zan's stuff to get his mentality.

"You know what I'm all about. I am probably the most honest guy you have ever met. ... Most guys will hide their natural impulses because they really like you and want to give you a good impression. ... The difference between them and me is that I don't hide my desires."

" So you are a player?"
Zan:"I never play with emotions... I desire you, it's true. I very much want you to stay. But if you go, I understand. Either way, you have my highest respect."

"I don't want to be just another one of your girls."
Zan: " I understand... Listen, I like you a lot. You're my type of girl."

Zan: "I want to see you now and in the future. I can only promise you two things...
...One, I will never lie to you or play with your emotions... And two I will take you higher than you have ever been..."

Zan:
He is a romantic; he believes in love, and his love is complete, absolute. He is a slave to his love to women. There is no room for misogyny, no hint of presumption, no toxicity of manipulation.

That's just a little excerpt...

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Where can one find more of Zan's stuff? I'm headed toward this problem myself.