This is probably going to sound like an odd questions, but I suppose I'll go for it anyway. This this girl for about 5 months. At that point in my life, I really wasn't ready for a relationship. She wanted one, however, and I was attracted to her. I was quite busy with work and 'neglected' her quite a bit. I didn't really spend much time with her and was actually very mean to her(verbally) during several instances(including one that is down-right unforgivable).

Here's where it gets strange ... after we broke up I started to miss her and get feelings for her. Yeah, yeah, yeah, oneitis, right? The thing is, we still have sex a few times a week at least. I can easily persuade her into having sex with; though, it seems that's all she wants to do. Oddly enough, I'm at a point in my life now where I would like a more stable relationship and not just a 'fuck-buddy.' She says she's afraid to trust me because I might 'hurt her' again. Honestly, I'm not planning to. I've told her that I've changed and she always says "I gave you so many chances already" blalhbalhbalh.

Any idea how I can combat this? We're probably going to meet up and chill(a.k.a. have sex) tomorrow night. Anything I should try on her?

Oh you dated 5 months?

Gain her trust. Establish an deeper connection with her. Tell her how you fucked up and how you changed.

Take her out on fun dates. Plant seeds where she will think of you throughout the day.

Get her hooked on you again.

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Be a new you to her. get it?
Be funner, more spontaneous. Like we all know attraction is not a choice and if she's attracted to the new you (like how you said you changed) then she's gonna want to be with you

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