Pulled a really hot girl last week - she came back and stayed the night (we didn't do anything - there was issues as she knows (not friends) with my ex and her mate gave her some grief at the time

I txt her as per this boards advice at the start of the week - cocky and funny, but didnt ask any return questions.

I was about to ask her out as follows:

'So which of these gets you out next week? 1. Drinks 2. The Zoo 3. The Races 4. Aquasphering 5. A helicopter / boat ride 6. None of these as i'll have a headache...'

Is this the right way to go? Help as been out of the game for a while.

J

Why are you asking her what to do?

Tell her what yall are doing.

"Hey, we are going to the races on Saturday. Make sure you wear plenty of sunscreen."

Or some shit like that. Don't let her decide. You take the lead.

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Y'alrite,

Firstly i wanna say that I think what you're doing is wrong. I'm not your 'experienced' critic seeing as I'm still young therefore lacking as much experience as the older members on this forum. Nevertheless, I think you lack a bit of the Alpha attitude. As the other guy stated you should be deciding what to do. On top of this if you take her home that's a massive Ioi regardless of what issues she has. I recommend quickly skimming through John Alexander's 'how to become an alpha male'. Internalise the material and you wount be needing as many ´routines´ in the future. In the past I tended the use the cliche ´Did you see those girls fighting outside´ opener together with common materialwhich worked but always felt slightly dodgy and akward. Now i use more natural material which is way more fun and, believe it or not, more reliable.

Btw, regarding your question. In the past I was advised to take these type of chicks on ´neutral´ dates. Tell her something like you´re going to a party and they told you to take a friend or just something you feel like doing (chicks also hate the chick trap). Then use ur alpha tricks, display higher value, use a couple of natural routines and you´ll be fine. But most importantly don´t worry and just have fun mate while you´re at it.

Hope that helps.

Take control. Take the lead. BE THE MAN. Options are bad unless you have already gotten to the point where you are doing something and you say, "Hey, what do you think, option a or option b?" but never tell her it's an "option" and never more than 2.

The way you phrased that whole thing is also so unconfident, that you end up immediately showing that you don't think she is really interested in doing something with you, hence why you've made so many options, hoping that something will make her interested, instead of making YOU the reason she's interested and the activity secondary. I did like the part about having a headache, but that's not something I would use until I've seen a girl a few times, probably even had sex with her, but know that she is gonna come out anyways, cause then it's just funny.

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The whole letting her decide thing is more for when you are dating (LTR).
NOt even then, most girls hate to decide what to do. I am serious as a heartattack.
Just invite her along on something you are doing anyway.

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"im going here XXXX this weekend, you can join me if you'd like"

sleeping with her, I hope there was some kino..

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