So I've used IM a few times to talk to this girl after she broke up with her long term boyfriend and started telegraphing some interest in me. I didn't see her enough in person and I thought that would at least be a way to build some comfort. I sort of had a few good in person moments as well. The thing is this all happened very late in the year and school just let out. From what I can figure she'll probably be about 8 hours from where I'll be. So I'm just wondering if I should even bother pursuing this anymore. And if I do how should I play it?

We saw each other at graduation and sort of half hugged and I asked her what she was doing that night and she pointed at her family, which made complete sense and was completely believable, she said she'd see me later though. What should I say if I bother to IM her again? I figure at least she'll be enjoyable to talk to anyway, I just want to know how much you think I should try to push making something happen. The juice is worth the squeeze fellas. It really is.

I'm thinking maybe I should ask her where she'll be this summer and then when she says the far away place I think she'll say ask her something like if I'll 'ever see her again'...only much much less cheesy.

BUMP.

I'd really like some advice on this if anyone wants to try to help me out.

Man. I could help you, but PUA is not about chasing ONE girl.

A PUA use tools to attract any woman, but if it's not working, you gotta let go sometimes. You need to have options.

If you're trying to risk with only one girl, forget about all PUA stuff ( they are just to gain easy sex, for anytime... ).
Just be yourself and make everything to earn her. But be careful or you can hurt yourself.

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"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." - Carl Jung