this doesnt really relate much to PUA
but i needed some advice

so a few months ago I got a girlfriend and put my PUA life on hold
she's really cute, she makes me laugh and she liked me for me, i didnt need any routines or dhv stories, although every now and then i would use some of the stuff i learned here on her

ok so its all going great until about 2 weeks ago
we're going to two differnt colleges next fall
she went to go visit hers in minnesota
and she went to a college party while she was up there

when she gets back its differnt
we havent talked as much
she's been distant
she didnt answer when i called last night,(i called twice, once at 8, when she didnt answer i thought maybe she's busy, tried again at 10, same thing)
the spark is missing
and i dunno what to do
prom is comming up, and i dont want to dump her and blow away the 170 i spent on the tickets

the worst part about it is since shes come back and is being distant to me, ive reverted back to my old shy guy self for some reason.

so is there anyone who can give me advice on how to get that spark back?

One thing to try is to not give her that attention she could always rely on you for. If you talk to her quite a bit, she will feel like you will be there no matter what she feels like. I tried this with a girl in the past and it worked for me because i gave her less attention after a while from what i did in the start.

Dont get down on yourself about being shy, its almost natural when situations get awkward. You need to talk to other girls and let her see it cause it will drive her nuts to think that there may be someone else trying to crawl into your life.

if she still calls you here and there, dont answer some calls. make it seem like your busy and your doing fine. She will begin to think of why your so happy.


But depending on the whole situation your in, sometimes the best thing to do is talk to her about the awkwardness, clear the air. Once thats out at least you will find out how she feels.

hate to break it to u but she might of meet someone else. but anything is a possibility so dont think bout that.

Maybe she is just thinking about you goin to 2 dif university's. But ye dont be to clingy, be cool and do your thing, plus makeher a lil jealous. if she calls you dont pick up. call her back the next day and say u just woke up cuz you had a crazy night last night or something along those lines. If she ants to hang out tell her you'll have to see cuz u might have plans. But remember this is just to make her jealous, not to push her away, dont be rude or cold.