Alright. heres the deal. I have game, im very polished, im attractive, im confident, im clever. I can get the girls i want, im very good at creating attraction. But i have a huge problem. i CAN NOT go in for the kill. i was lucky enough to run into david deangelo's stuff when i was 14 so ive got the material and the swagger. But since i was that young i took some of it in the wrong way. i thought that you shouldnt show ANY interest at all. And ive had this thought dug into my deep inner game for a long time.

so whenever its crunch time. im alone with the girl, weve been clicking all night, its time for some action. I just cant go for it. I pussy out. I feel that if i act like i wanna get some shell think thats all i want and reject me. I suppose a fear of rejection is also a factor in this dilema. the worse part about this is I KNOW THATS NOT HOW IT IS. i know that women like being pursued, i know they like it when you show interest. I cant get over this hump. Hell ive had a lot of prospects over the last year. All hot girls that were into me but i just couldnt make that final move. there was a mental wall there. The only girl ive gotten with is my last girlfriend who was very very straight forward with the fact that she liked me and basically told me to ask her out.

So, i need some help. Does anyone have any advice to get through this mental wall? any excersises or mental checklists for this specific problem? its killing me. I see how much of a pussy im being but i cant help it, its embedded into the bedrock of my personality.

That's a tough question... one that I'm not qualified to answer. But I can point you in the right direction...

Read some self-affirming material, and try to internalize the concept that it's okay to express yourself as a person with certain needs. Really examine yourself and try to figure out what triggers this reaction, and work on it.

For wiser heads and better advice, post your question under one of the "Ask ******" threads. Any of the guys with an "Ask Me" thread could give you more advice.

Hope this helps...

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