What are some good suggestions for evening dates in the City?

Billiards

I am a fan of using the bowling ally as a first date arena. I find that The goofy shoes and retro lanes are great for setting a fun SPAM. If you can try and get one with kids bumper lanes to avoid gutter balls and induce laughter. With this I like to convince the hb to try some made up tandem bowling {Try not to get kicked out} and perhaps help her out with her stance(KINO). If you are lucky you can find a ally that has neon bowling(wear clothes that will stand out in the black light for peacoking). Also most bowling alleys serves alcoholic drinks if you two are so inclined.

I'd suggest that you don't go on a "date" for your Day 2. There is a reason we call it a "Day 2" and not a "1st Date". Just hang out somewhere, do something that isn't a date and it will go a lot smoother, cause there is less pressure, it's much less awkward, there are no expectations, you can do something that is comfortable for you, giving you more confidence, control, etc.

- I like the mall, there's lots of random stuff to do in random stores in the mall, gives you a lot of opportunities to display different parts of your personality and find different parts of hers.

- Your house is good, cause you know what's there and what you can do. Have some ideas, don't just ask her what she likes to do. Videogames are good, if she doesn't play, then something The Saint told me he likes to do, is just get up in the middle of whatever you are doing if you are bored and go play video games, or watch a movie. She'll follow and she'll sit there and watch and beg for attention.

DO NOT

- Go to the movies.

- Go out to dinner (you can make dinner at your place IF that's something you like to do, not something to impress her).

- Go to a sporting event that you can't talk easily.

- Pander to her wants: If she wants to do something that you don't want to do, then don't do it. The reverse is ok, as long as it's not something that she will HATE, just something that she isn't as interested in, cause then she'll be paying attention to you, not whatever you are doing; it shows compliance and attraction.

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~ Rye

My plan was meet up for a game of billiards. Go next door to a arabic place to grab some quick food. Bring it over to my place, hang out and watch a movie (action)

That works. Just remember to keep the SPAM one of just hanging out, not a date sort of feeling. If you're playing pool on a first date, it ends up feeling awkward and people tend to feel weird about how their skill level compares to the other person, whether they are better or worse. Also, there ends up being all that awkward silence across the table. If you're just hanging out having fun, then lots of banter and you just play however you want, drop your skill level a bit if she sucks bad, don't SCHOOL her, but you can still beat her.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Since i know how to skate because of my hockey background, i would take the girl to skating(if i see that they actually are interested in it)...but like places were u have background in the activity. Definately not dinner or movies because it is very common

Cool one more for you all.

Lets say you allude to hanging out a week before, would you send a text the day before like "we're hanging out today, lets meet at..."

The girl shows a lot of IOI through text.