There is this chic that is ridiculously sexy but she is like a total goody good and very innocent and probably prude. I dont know her very well but what would be some good tactics to start off with so i dont fuck it up right off the bat.

ask her what she thinks of you

I'm in the same boat. I'm after this girl who seems shy until you get to know her and then she opens up. I've had a few interactions with her, I tried some openers, but they seemed to not really help much with me opening her. Anyway, my question is, can what aim2pleez said help me in my situation?

I was also thinking about saying, "You know, I hate guys who can't talk to girls they like" and try to use more direct game. Anyone have ideas?

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hmm well you need to find out what makes this girl tick. Just saying she is shy doesn't really open up that much about her personality.

I'll give you an example theres this shy girl who I am interested in she is a physician assistant at my hospital. She rarely ever talks i'm an very outgoing person and saw her sitting by herself at work so I joined her and before really telling her anything about myself I wanted to find out what she was about.

I know girls who are shy but when they are out they are wild and rowdy hook-ups (as this girl turned out) and at the same token I know girls who are shy and are truely shy and reserved people so just becuase someone is shy doesn't really tell you about her and what she wants.

This girl who was shy said she could never be with another guy who is shy becuase then she tends to be even more shy in social situations and prefers very outgoing and alpha type personalities becuase it helps her to open up. I got to know her and played that role, she invited me to a party for one of her girlfriends at this bar in the city and when she was out with her freinds she was psuedo-drunk, dancing and grinding with her girlfreinds. I played an indifferent type game with her, I let her know i was interested but got o know her friends well and sorta ignored her and hung out with my freinds who were out there. she came up to me later that night and said lets get out of here take me anywhere and that night she was anything but prude.

Anyways my point is that jsut becuase shes shy doesn't mean she is prude or reserved.

Approach her and open her like you would with anyone but you just might have to have more topics ready and pre-planned questions if the conversation hits social awkwardness. Try not bringing anything up and see if she keeps the conversation going. If she does have low self esteem be careufl with your negs you might not even need negs. TBH I only use negs for very hot girls who I feel might think they are socially superior to me.

Once you open her up and learn what she wants in a person it should be easier to talk to her. Then depending on what you want from this girl relationship or hook up set that up accordingly. Also how old are we talking here. If this is like high school or college I would go completely differently then the real world.

In real world if its a well raised and proper girl I might go for a first date (not a day 2) if this is someone that you really like and had a good time talking with. Good girls will appreciate and like that and expect that especially if she is lower self-esteem. A day 2 again is something I think u do with a 10/10 higher social value girl because you dont' wnat to show her to much interest but then again it also totally depends on ur social value so you need to look at these things and make your own decision.

Regardless talk to her and don't be shy urself, open her up and have some pre-planned questions ready assess right away is she a wild girl whos just wearing a shell or is she truely shy. THis will let u know how to procede.

EDIT** by the way u can totally tease her about being shy. I def teased this girl some about her social awkwardness and it worked quite sell. I can't remember how i worded it though just be a lil bit of a dick and tease her. Again careful of a mean neg if shes low self esteem.

what if shes a goody good high school girl who seems very innocent and has no previous history of anything bad?

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