Whats a good way to get her back to your place without making it sound like a big deal?

I know David D would say ... I have some crazy home videos...

but what are other lines you could use?

I bought a deck of tarot cards for this specific reason. It offers plausible deniability. For example, you could slip in the topic of tarot readings in conversation and pull later on to give her a "free reading."

I know guys who keep an impressive assortment of hard liquor in their rooms so they could use that by saying "let's go to my place so we have some real drinks for free." Hell, you don't even need a very good selection of alcohol for this. Once you're there, you're there.

I can do my mind reading illusion as well? I also have a lot of guitars, on of which I made.

How would I use that?

My plan is to go play billiards, grab a bite to eat and bring it back to my place.

I can allude to the mind reading while at billiards and then after picking up something " lets eat at my place and we can see how well I read minds"

If your mind reading routines have anything to do with a prop you have INSIDE YOUR HOUSE, that would be logistically legitimate.

As for your guitars, that's inside your house, so you're good to go. Talk about your guitars with a FIERY PASSION and OVER-HYPE the FUCK out of how cool they are, so you can get your target(s) emotionally charged. They will then anchor that pleasurable state of buying temperature to the idea of going to your place.

No props, but just the right env.

I just dont want to make it a big deal. After all its just two people hanging out. I am not even looking for a f-close.

If she's attracted to you, you won't need gimmicks to get her back to your place. No amount of plausible deniability will be enough to get a woman who isn't attracted to you to go with you when she knows what could happen - if she likes you and is comfortable ith you touching her a lot then you need not be concerned with special ways to get her home. There is no secret formula.

They're not stupid, they know why you really want to go to your place. There's no reason to pussyfoot around it because they love sex just as much as we do, however I'm not saying to directly tell her your intentions. Never verbalise sexual intent - even though she may want it, talking about it will turn her off.

If I took a girl out and played a few frames of pool, then grabbed something to eat, I'd bring it up casually just as we were leaving the restaurant or wherever. Remember, it's only a big deal if you make it one. You don't wanna be the guy who stands in front of her after the date and looks at her as you both think the same thing, waiting to go into the inevitable "I had fun today" speech and arranging the next one. That's boring and predictable and it isn't what either of you really want. So what do you do? Well, after you've talked about the food or whatever she's going to ask what you wanna do now, so tell her.

"Let's head over to my place and chill out for a while, come on." Put your hand out for her to take it, and lead her.

Simple, right? Bear in mind that if she isn't really comfortable and having a good time so far then she may say no, but as I said earlier if this is the case then she'd say no nomatter what way you worded it. She may really like you and still say no because she "knows what could happen" or "doesn't think she knows you well enough yet"... these are good things because it tells you for a fact that she's thinking about sleeping with you, but is worried about the social repercussions of doing so. All you need to do is laugh a little and say, "Hey, we're grown up... I'm sure we can keep our hands off each other! Come on, I make a killer hot chocolate."

I said it before and I'll say it again, it's only a big deal if you make it one.

I would also throw in a "... But we can only hang out for a bit, I REALLY must get up first thing tomorrow morning to do a bunch of errands OR WHTEVER"

This gives her a false time constraint, and will help reduce any of her shields that will inevitably come up... obviously once she's over, and you guys are having a good time, the whole getting up in the morning thing will be forgotten... and hopefully you'll be waking up with her! hehe