Hi All

New to this board and would appreciate some help if possible?

Broke up with my ex about 4 weeks ago (I was dumped) and have decided to move on rather than pine about it. I pulled a girl I like a lot last Friday - unfortunately she lives with my ex girlfriends mates off her course.

Whilst my ex was not out, her best mate who lives with her was and had a go at these girls and upset my pull. She came back to mine but felt guilty and we just kissed and cuddled in the end.

Anyhow, I text her the following ...Hey trouble. Had a BBQ last night & still couldn't shift your drink - not 1 taker! Good luck with the interview - don't giggle if they ask you about death'

...whilst I know it probably makes no sense to you guys - there are 2 in jokes in there.

I'm worried as I've not had a response in 2 days - I'm having a BBQ tomoz and have not invited her as don't want to come over all clingy - her housemates are coming however and have been asked. I've also been told she thought I was a good kisser but she felt guilty.

What do I do?

Thanks in advance.

Ruling out that you came on too strong, she's probably just feeling guilty and unsure, like you said. This happens a lot to me when it comes to girl's i've fooled around with who have boyfriends. It's not anything you did, it's just some shit going on in her head. She probably just needs some breathing room. If you're worried that she won't show up to the bbq, don't. Give her a little space.

Thx BigShow

They were my gut thoughts -but people have been telling me to ask her (for fear of making it look like I don't want her there). I've text both her housemates (also my mates) and they're coming.

They've also made a point of telling me that they are coming and not referring to the girl in question.

Probably reading way too much into it all - just dont want to put her off by being clingy or too full on - but dont want her put off by being rude/non-interested either!

Help!!!