Whats up fellas ! So whenever i go out and party at a house or bar i drink, but this week i have taken a week long vow of sobriety ( unheard of in college haha). Whenever i drink its not hard for me to be really spontaneous and life of the party. I am the new guy at a Ruby Tuesday and work with many HBs and flirt and run some minor game at work. One of the girls is having a big house party with all our co-workers attending tonight, more importantly all the HBs will be there. They're gonna be playing beer pong and drinking games. Anybody have any tips for still being the life of the party regardless of remaining sober ? Also I dont really drink pop. Any suggestions ?

Good Looking out PUAs...

Guilt and fear dominate American culture. That is why everyone is so fat, drunk, and horny. If you don't drink you are forced with having to live with yourself. Your problem isn't with attracting chubby flip-flop queens. Nope. Look within.

I dont drink when I sarge. You can still have fun by talking to Everyone. An easy way to do that is make it your goal to meet EVERYONE that night. its a house party, so its easier then a 500+ people club.

You will get more and more social proof as well as get into state by about the 4th person you meet.

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Sprite or Sierra mist is your friend. Yea i may go out and have a couple glasses of scotch, but never any more then three. at least when im wanting to meet people, guys night out all bets are off.

If people see you dont need alcohol to have a great time, they think of you as being more fun period then the average person. someone that can enjoy themselves no matter where they are at.

When i dont drink, ill order a sprite or sierra mist, add a couple limes for some flare and be on my way. no caffine, no sugar how can you go wrong.

If a girl asks why your not drinking, have fun with it.

"why? your not my stalker are you? trying to get my drunk and take advantage of me"

"you would like that huh, im not that easy, i need an emotional connection and a stimulating conversation first."

possibilities are endless.

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

good lookin out guys. went to the party didnt drink except energy drinks. Still played some kings cup and whatnot, but found being the new guy in a group of co workers who all know eachother real well and hang out all the time was kinda weird. I was still cockyfunny and had people laughing and paying attention to me but some of the other fellas have been long term friends with all the poeople so were able to command more attention than me in the settings with females. weird thing was i acted the exact same around the guys when it was just the boys and found that i was the most alpha of the group. I see it as i dont know the girls well enough to have comfort and all the other guys did because of their pasts. What do you other pua/ aspiring puas think ?

good lookin out guys. went to the party didnt drink except energy drinks. Still played some kings cup and whatnot, but found being the new guy in a group of co workers who all know eachother real well and hang out all the time was kinda weird. I was still cockyfunny and had people laughing and paying attention to me but some of the other fellas have been long term friends with all the poeople so were able to command more attention than me in the settings with females. weird thing was i acted the exact same around the guys when it was just the boys and found that i was the most alpha of the group. I see it as i dont know the girls well enough to have comfort and all the other guys did because of their pasts. What do you other pua/ aspiring puas think ?