So I think I have finally learned what my mission is.
I don't want a one night stand. I want a girlfriend. Sex means nothing to me unless its someone I have a genuine connection with.
I mean I got head from some nasty ass bitch and couldn't even get fucking, hard. and I didn't give to shits that I was sitting there getting my dick sucked. as far as I was concerned, I might as well have been waiting for a bus.

So now I'm on a mission. To get a girlfriend.
Only there are some problems,
I'm 22
have never had a girlfriend in my life
have never come close to getting a girl friend.
have never had sex.
no very little females.
Live in a small town where I don't meet people.
Work a dead end job at Fred Meyer, and don't meet people.

But I never expected that in my 20's after having no luck in my teens, I never expected things to just magically turn around.
It won't be easy, its going to take allot of work. allot of patience.
I have no time constraint as opposed to when I want have one. I just know I want one, and one way or another I'm gonna approach those sets, try and get those numbers and keep plugging away like I never have before.

I can completely relate to your situation - at one point in my early high school years I was scared to even ask an attractive girl what the math homework was because I was afraid she would get offended and assume I was hitting on her. I didn't even get a kiss until high school and couldn't get along with females for the life of me and my financial life wasn't much better.

You have a really good outlook as a starter. You know what you want you want and you're prepared to do anything to do it. I am living proof that you can turn even the bleakest of circumstances you can make it out better than you ever imagined so if there's anything I can help with feel free to ask.

Any unique plans for achieving your goals?

What kind of methods are you seeking to learn (hypnosis, natural, canned, ect.)?

- Chris

well if you want to email me some advice personally, well my name is my email (still need to fix that)

I tryed using canned material and as far as I'm concerned it just confuses them. One trick thats worked well is, disqualifying myself, having my thumb pointed out, pretending to leave as a compliment a girl, I wonder if theres anyway I can take tricks like that to the next level.

I don't know much about hypnosis, if you care the tell how some of that works. Though it would be in my best intrest to use becouse who wants to be like Arnold Rimmer.
(in an episode of the british sci fi comedy Red Dwarf, the Character Rimmer; tells of how he got a girl to come on a date with him, using the, 'theres something in your eye technique.)

Sounds like your on the right track man... its great how you set out goals and problems which are standing in your way.

What have you done so far to change these parts of your life? What are you planning to do?

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