so this girl already wants me, shes not HB shes about 6ish/10 . How do i keep the attraction and fun going?
I think negging playfully might hurt her since she isnt HB and shes really nice so i dont know if cocky funny would go. what do you guys think?

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

Well are you interested in her or not?

I was just in a similar situation a week ago, you have to maintain the frame of a 10, this girl told me through a friend to hit her up on myspace. so I went with the line "your an attractive girl, but beauty is common what else do you have going for you other than your looks," it worked great cause there was already attraction there and she began qualifying her self to me, make sure she knows that your the prize and to work for her attention. she told me that she told me that she could not hang out that night so I called her a loser, she got a little flustered and made plans for another night. remember that you are the prize or else she will get bored.

yea im actually interested in her.
She asked me what i was doing a couple of nights in a row so i think thats an indicator that im keeping the "im the prize" status. I couldnt hang out either nights tho cuz i was actually busy but i told her we should do it the next day instead.

what do you guys think, would she lose interest since i turned her down two days in a row?

also when we hang out we talk about our lives, not really that much. so how do i spice things up? helppp

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

talk about what they like to do for fun, hobbies, travel and my fav. subject 'their darkside' girls love talkin about being naughty and mischevious and do tease her with negs .etc

worked for me

the girls doesnt do much for hobby tho, shes more of a good girl kind, and i wouldnt want to bring up their darkside just yet till i know them more and build rapport.
any more ideas pleaseee

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

honestly with girls who have little hobbies. kinda like wut im dealing with now... u wanna just go out with her and taker her one on one with u. long car rides are good...just go somewhere where u guys have a destination and are one on one.

not like at a park or something.

do something where u can talk while heading to a destination.

actually dont think that would work as like I said theres isnt much to talk about. I think we need to go do something that doesnt necessarily put pressure on us having a convo like coffee shop but more like a movie where convo isn't the focus i think.

we went out today to get food and a quick window shopping. it got alittle quiet every now and than when we were eating but no too bad. the worst part was when we were walking from store to store in the plaza we had no convo! HELPPP

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

If she's unresponsive you basically have to result to the 90/10 rule where you're the one talking the most. NEVER EVER ask her if something's wrong or if she's having a good time or anything like that, no matter how you mean it unless there's a real problem like at home or somthing she's gonna think you're insecure. So launch into a story (you just have to practice this so it seems natural to transition) or better yet, chick crack.

Yes, chick crack. Run a cold reading routine or if you know palmistry even better. But the best cold read I know is David D's He would ask a girl to guess his sign and then ask them theirs and if they tried to make him guess he would say "No, just tell me." Then he would act really interested and be like, "Wow, so tell me some of the really *insert zodiac* things about you," and the girls would just cold read themselves. Perfect if you're really bad at cold reads. Gl next time man.

Nine

sms her your profile picture?

I dont want her to jump on me right away, she cant handle this stuff!! (gotta think im the prize)

but yea I think i need to look up some games to play, I have heared alot about the CUBE but not sure what it is, anyone enlighten me. thanks

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

It's stickied on one of the forum topics, just look around. Sorry, to lazy to go find it.

Nine

to get her talking or qualifying herself, you should probably use some open-ended questions.
Try: Whats the most exciting thing that you've ever done?
or: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

if you want her to open herself up, ask: So, tell me something that is wierd or unique about yourself(can lead to interesting convos).

theses questions sound like a good idea but might be too much for this kind of girl as we are younger and arent too deep in the relationship. any other ideas would be awesome

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

Just start trying stuff out... if you just tell yourself you dont think it will work and never take chances of course it wont work. I assume this isnt going to be the girl you marry so try these things out on all the girls you date... This isnt just for conversations either this goes for all parts of your game. This will allow you to see what works what doesnt and after time patterns will form, you will realize why and how they work.

Remember The outcome doesnt matter, your the prize, and there will always be more girls!

Scott

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