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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:12 pm 
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Ok, straight into it, i have a problem opening sets.
It's not AA, quite the opposite. I come in feeling like a king and half the time the set assumes that instead of being the well socially rounded great guy, i'm the arogant jerk. I've been C&F all my life, but as soon as i start it with a 2set it backfires. It's like they miss the humour in what i'm saying.
The usual answer is that i am not being funny enough. But, i've asked my female friends whether they think they statements/lines that i used on failed set are funny and they said 'yes' unequivocally. (E.g. i was out shopping for an indiana jones costume at a Kmart and the girl helping me suggested that i needed a whip. I said something like: "you didn't strike me as the type for whips" with big grin on my face and she seemed genuinely offended)

Background (perrhaps it will be useful, it can't hurt):I'm just a young'un out in australia and very new to the scene. Got into The Game from a net buddy of mine. I've read through very beginner type ebooks such as Mystery Method and Double Your Dating.
I'm tall (6'4) but so lanky i feel slightly self conscious.
Obligatory bathroom shot: http://img236.imageshack.us/my.php?imag ... 948de9.jpg

Forgive stupid spelling or gramatical errors, it's far too late.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:40 pm 
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It's good that you are being light hearted. Tall guys tend to be more intimidating to a woman so your doing the right thing acting in a lighthearted manner.

If you are successful with one woman but not two It sounds like it has very little to do with your c/f and more to do with how your handling the set. How are you handling these two sets? Are you engaging both girls, just the target or ignoring the target?

- Chris 8)


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:50 pm 
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Treating them similarly. I'm fun and interesting towards both, but i play it like there is an on going joke between me and the obstacle that the target is a dork. I walk in with the idea that they're already somewhat familiar with me.


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