hi guys. I have been having this problem for years. It seems that I become so silent when there is two and more people around me. even when I try to talk, my voice suddenly sound so low and sometimes I feel they don't even pay attention to what I say, I feel ignored alot . However as some people leave, I feel confident and start to talk alot with the 1 person left as. Its like my mouth is easy to speak out just about anything

maybe someone know or has experienced this problem and could share the cause and the solution to this problem

Thanks you so much

Hiya,

It may just be a self confidence thing, sometimes in a group situation it is just easier to stay in the background and listen. Try practicing being a bit more assertive in small groups with you opinion and views and build up from there.

Try not to worry what other people think about you, that goes along way to building your own confidence. (and the girls love it)

Hope that helps

Nicole

Thank you very much nicole. I'll keep it in mind

anyone else ?

I have the same problem at times to, but I have a naturally low and deep voice. I make sure to be animated and emphasize my words better. It seems to draw more attention.