Ok, straight into it, i have a problem opening sets.
It's not AA, quite the opposite. I come in feeling like a king and half the time the set assumes that instead of being the well socially rounded great guy, i'm the arogant jerk. I've been C&F all my life, but as soon as i start it with a 2set it backfires. It's like they miss the humour in what i'm saying.
The usual answer is that i am not being funny enough. But, i've asked my female friends whether they think they statements/lines that i used on failed set are funny and they said 'yes' unequivocally. (E.g. i was out shopping for an indiana jones costume at a Kmart and the girl helping me suggested that i needed a whip. I said something like: "you didn't strike me as the type for whips" with big grin on my face and she seemed genuinely offended)
Background (perrhaps it will be useful, it can't hurt):I'm just a young'un out in australia and very new to the scene. Got into The Game from a net buddy of mine. I've read through very beginner type ebooks such as Mystery Method and Double Your Dating.
I'm tall (6'4) but so lanky i feel slightly self conscious.
Obligatory bathroom shot:
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Forgive stupid spelling or gramatical errors, it's far too late.