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PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:51 am 
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Hey guys. I have finally decided to sarge alone.
However, I am concerned that I'd end up spending a lot of money....like paying to get into a club. Bouncing from one location to another. Dressing properly, and having a bad ass wardrobe, etc.

What do you guys think ? Do even experienced PUA's spend a lot to get a lot ?

I'd like to think NO, but I'd like to hear what Noobs and experts have to say before I end up alone in a club. BTW, isn't that a DLV ?

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Yeah you do need money, but not alot, as long as you have enough spare cash to play with its ok.
PUA material, nightgame, dates, kittin out ya wardrobe, working on appearance. Thats mainly what you need money for. But if you go out nightgame alot, go to workshops/bootcamps, thats where it becomes expensive. But you dont have to spend a bomb going to bars, just drink coke and you'll also get drinks bought for you.

In my opinion the more money you have the easier it is to become a mPUA. (It makes it easier)

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Yes, Money comes in handy. Its easier if buying new designer clothing regularry doesn't affect your financial situation much and if you don't have to worry about drinking one or two of your favotire (expensive) drinks when you are out hunting. But it is possible to play on a rather low budget too.

The important thing is to try to fit your game to you budget. I did this when trying to help a friend who's financial situation wasn't too solid.

You need to know where you can cut costs and where not. You Need some nice clothing, this doesn't mean it has to be expensive, go with some cheaper brands. Even here in Finland, where everything is rather expensive, we managed to get a really nice looking, all new, outfit for my friend with less than 100€!

Next, cut your drinking, I know it doesn't seem much spending some 5-15€ (depending on your venue) on a drink, but even when you buy only 1-2 drinks a night and go out a few nights a week.. you'll end up paying quite a lot, so try to go with a coke :) And DON't buy drinks for the ladies!

And choose where you game :) Daygame is cheaper than nightgame, and at nighttime, just skip the fanciest clubs, you'll save quite a lot of money that way..


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Sad but true you need money for the following!

1.) Spending on yourself
2.) Spending on yourself
3.) Spending on yourself.

Don't pay for clubs that require entry fees, unless you have to, and since your in this game you don't have to drink, paying for alcho is not a major issue anymore.

Spending money on your clothes, hair, style, shoes, whatever but make sure its for you and you alone.



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I recently just spent $500 on a new wardrobe, but that's because I was buying stuff that was too big for me before or too small in the wrong places. Now I have 'fitted' clothing, it's tough for a guy with 44 inch chest and size 28 waist, but i think i have my clothing line down now. Although now my friends tell me girls would be intimated by me.

such afcs


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A lot needs to just be spent on yourself. Whatever spending/buying will make you more confident is all that is needed. Not a lot needs to be spent on chicks/alcohol cause spending on both of those is pretty unnecessary.

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Well, based on what you guys are saying that money well-spent is on oneself. Occasionally, though not early on in the game, spend money on the girls ?

It's what I thought...can't be extreme on either end.

So what do you recommend for night time activities on a budget ? Day game should be fairly straight forward...right ?

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<h3>Hey!/</h3>

Have you been locked in the closet like.... all your life?


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You need money to eat, survive, etc. Money is always a must.

Scarily simple. isn't it?


Well, brains are not a must. You could have been president of usa without using a single neuron. U c? Money makes the difference, it creates opporunities... so spend wisely.

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Im not really a PUA yet, but from my point of view, I think u Need a lot of money. You dont need to be rich or anything, but definatly have a good amount of money to spend.

I ahve only been doing this for about 6weeks or so, but between gas for the car (from going out a whole lot), cover fees for the club, maybe a drink or somehitng inside, sometimes dinner before or after the club, and moving from one club to the other on teh same night, you end up spending a few hundred bucks in a weekend.

On top of that, if you start buying a lot of clothes (depending on your style, it might be very cheap or very expensive), and if you take up a sport or you join a gym, it adds even more money to it.

So yeah, you do need money. If you are on a budget, you might want to take it easy, and maybe only go out once or twice a week. And dont bounce from venue to venue on the same night.

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you do have to spend a lot of money... but hey AFCs also spend a lot of money and on stupid shit like buying girls drinks!!!

you can read about how to spend your money correctly in the PUA eBook that i wrote... you can download free without registration at

http://seductionsniper.110mb.com/

Please tell what you think... PUAs and Newbies :)


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Tzarkov, I understand what you're saying, that we all need money to survive.
I also understand that we need to have a certain image for social validation - I heard it best with this analogy: If you got lost in a city and you had to ask either a weirdo, a decently dressed business man, or a drug dealer with needle marks all over his skin for directions or a ride, who would you ask ? No doubt the guy who you think you could trust the most, based on how he appears.
However, I was looking around for the little to no money locations. I don't think PUA is all about clubs...even so, there are decent places that have little to no cover charge.....I'm looking to practice sarging there, then take my revised game to the clubs, where I'll mos'def get hotter babes, but by then I'll have more confidence, practiced routines, etc.
I was thinking that day game is the CHEAP way to practice, since you can go to the mall, beach, laundromat, bookstore, gym, etc. at no cost.
I did download the free e-book, and there were some very helpful tips in there. Best part is the price....thanks SSniper. :wink:
And before somebody says day game is different....I'm still looking for night game on a budget.

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I would love to have a ton more money so that I could buy all the stuff I want, but I don't, so I buy what I like that is in my price range and splurge on a few things here and there. If I had a ton of money, then I think I would enjoy what I wear more and that would make me more comfortable and attractive, so it would make things easier in that way.

Without that money though, I'm doing just fine and no one ever has an issue with what I'm wearing, even if they're wearing Chenelle or Prada and I'm wearing $40 jeans and a $40 shirt short sleeved plaid shirt (yeah that's right, I'm told I'm the only guy that can pull off plaid in a club!). I have spent close to $500 on piercings, because I love the way they represent who I am in a visible way that looks awesome and I have probably $150-200 in accessories, from rings to hats and necklaces.

It's not about how much money you have to spend to impress people, but how much money you want to spend to become on the outside, who you are on the inside. I spent $20 on a ring made out of a stainless steel desert fork and a crystal, which most people probably couldn't pull off, because it isn't them, so instead they spend $800 on a gold ring that suits them.

So who are you?

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It's all about bit torrenting. Some bit torrent things for PU artistry you need to be invited to, but not all. Most have limits on the number of members, as well. But, it's all worth it, because it's completely free. Everything from RSD and NLP to Mystery and Strauss. Even more stuff out there, too. Stuff you probably haven't even heard of.


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