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| genesismagic | PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 3:36 am | |
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Posts: 78 | | My problem is that lets say im talking to a girl on aim everything goes great we have really long conversations problem is i use lots of the stories and all the stuff so the convo wont die but then thier is a point in the conversation where their really isnt anything to say because i said alot of the stuff. Then thats when the long pauses happen how can i fix this?
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| Drifter99 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:10 am | |
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Posts: 117 | | dude I would only talk on the chat thing long enough to build enough attraction/comfort to get her to a meeting. That should be your goal. Not to have long conversations because when you finally are able to meet her, she will already know so much about you and there may not be enough exciting things to talk about. You want there to be anticipation on her part when she meets you, so that she is curious to get to know MORE about YOU!
have you met this girl in person before?
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| genesismagic | PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:16 am | |
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Posts: 78 | | we are planning to meet very soon
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| Drifter99 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:21 am | |
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Posts: 117 | | Engage her more in the conversation. Though I think the problem here may be that you have yet to meet her. Stop talking on AIM (what the hell is this?) and get a first meeting ASAP.
My thoughts are that if you talk tooo much on a MSN type chat service, that there is a much more likelyhood that the girl will LJBF you.
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| genesismagic | PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:30 am | |
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Posts: 78 | | problem here is were not gonna hang for at least 2 weeks because of hockey school and her job and club we want to meet but its gonna be like 2 weeks so what should i do not talk to her for 2 weeks that wouldnt be good what should i do?
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| Drifter99 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:44 am | |
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Posts: 117 | | Well I understand that you guys both may be busy, but if you're in the same city and there's been a good build up of attraction and comfort, then she should want to meet you soon, even if its for a coffee (try to pick something cool).
Two weeks is some time, I would defin start minimizing the chat time without her feeling that you're blowing her off. If she asks why you have spoke as much, say that you're swamped with hockey,etc.. Make her chase you a little bit.
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