First time poster here.
A quick backstory. Ive been in a relationship for 5 years until a couple months ago. In that time i fucked up my life got fat and went beta after the gf left. Turned into a complete pussy.
Its been 2 months now and ive lost 30 pounds and getting fit by the day. Motivated as hell. Completely turned my life around.
Since i went beta after the break up there is no way of getting the ex back so im not even going to try.
But there is something i would like to try. Ive been out of the game for so long and my confidence is still recovering so im kinda stuck.
There is this girl, one of my exes best friends that is extremely promiscuous.The best word would be: complete slut.
She married a guy 6 months ago that she had cheated on at least 5-6 times i know of in the slutiest possible ways.
Now this guy is a beta for life. Small, scrawny, skinny, introverted, quiet, timid and the biggest cuck you ever seen. But has a good job. Hehe. I feel kinda sorry for him because i know that even his best man at the wedding knew his wife to be is a slut... But on the other hand this guy is just completely void of any character and manhood that i find him to be less then a man. I know it sounds harsh.
You get the idea. Im saying this because i kinda understand his wife for cheating.
Now, this girl developed a dislike for me because i was judgemental about some random crap but when we were in a group setting she was always crawing my attention. I know theres something there.
I know there are many women out there and i probably shouldnt do this bla bla but on the other hand i really want to.
I kinda want to be the asshole once in my life since i was always the nice guy which got me nowhere fast.I fucking turned down women hot as hell when i was with my ex that left me without an after thought. I was an idiot with hollywood romance ideas in my head. Love, romance its all crap. Money, confidence, looks, size, success, is where its at.
How the hell do i go about doing this? Lets say its for research purposes.
If i facebook her it will be weird and she will just run to my ex about how i contacted her out of nowhere. How the hell do i break the ice and gain her trust without tanking my chances in the start? I need an excuse that is not my ex but wont make her run to my ex about how im contacting her.

Are you completely out of that social circle after your breakup?

Yes. Completely. Facebook is really the only way to bridge the gap. This girl loves attention and cant help herself around guys. She would sit in other guys laps after a few drinks in front of people that know shes is in a 7 year relationship. Shes waaaay out there. Cant control herself at all.
Im thinking of waiting a few more weeks till my revenge body is ready for public display (currently at-32 pounds on week 8 ), and im a few more weeks into no contact so the blowback from my ex isnt as bad, and just go all in, risk it.
I dont see any other solution.

Get the ball rolling with girls who don't know your ex first. Then this little project won't be the biggest thing on your plate.

This sounds awfully complicated. You can't game other women in the meantime. Not saying you should not because over time, everyone will do what they feel is right. I have my own moral code which won't resonate with everyone so that isn't really my thing anymore.

I focus on the problem here which is your lack of abundance. Game more women. You'll find a nice little number to play with soon.

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