I’m still fairly young and don’t have a lot of dating experience to be honest. My friends believe that I’m being very naive about what’s going on with my recent breakup. I believe I’m seeing things very rationally.


So I technically broke up with him the beginning of October. I tried to get back together a week or so later. He turned me down and said he had moved on. I left and he ended up sending me 3 messages that night, another one the next morning. I ignored 3 of the 4 messages. He kept going on about how the breakup was really hard for him and it was hard to go back. How he wanted to stay but couldn’t. I responded and he sent me a handful more messages that I didn’t respond to. I got another message for him saying he was struggling and I said same for me.

Weeks later my friends believed he tried to make me jealous by posting a picture with his arm around another girl with caption, “Fun Night”. He’s a pretty private person and we still follow each other on social media so that’s why they believe he did this on purpose. I think he’s just moving on and is doing what single people do.

Meanwhile, he’s been looking at my Snapchat (it tells you who has viewed it) and liked a picture that I posted of the city last night.

My girlfriends are under the impression that he’s trying to indirectly communicate by continuing to look at my posts. He wants to me to say something to him. They said it would be different if the breakup wasn’t just so recent. I on the other hand believe because he’s fine with everything and has moved on and is simply looking and liking because it’s social media and that’s what it’s for. Plus he said that he had moved on so that’s another reason why I believe that my friends are wrong.

Thoughts?