Hi,
I have been in relationship for a year, but the problem is NOT about it. Before that I had been getting quite a lot of attention from girls, but since I am in a relationship that changed. Now I don't seem to get any girls hitting me, only a few really subtle situations in space of months. I don't understand what happened, but my self-esteem starts to go down because of it. The truth is that I don't get many opportunities to game (maybe some chicks who attend to my classes) and I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend, so casual clubbing and direct approach or Tinder is not fine. I just want to have options so I don't become needy and feel better. Any tips?

Did you get fat?

Take a seamstress tape measure ($3-4 at Target) and put it around your waist, just above the belly button. If you're over 36 inches, you got fat.

This is the number one reason why men go from getting attention from women, to NOTHING. The single worst thing for game is a bloated face.

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No, no physical change at all. I am a pretty handsome guy.

I've been here personally, and I did get fat.

Stop looking to get validation from other women to build your confidence.

Build your SELF-confidence from within, by doing shit you value, you enjoy and that takes you on your journey towards your vision of who you are.

Look at what you are getting from her and giving to her in your relationship. Your journey is both with her and alone, but you need to lead in both cases... she will either grow with you or you guys will grow apart.

You have to keep growing as a person. I figured out that is the best way to get the most self-esteem. It should NOT come from women. The more skills you have or the better at life overall you are, the more confidence you will have. Women will be attracted to the lifestyle more often than just looks. Now, I don't want to argue about looks, I am just addressing attraction overall.


If you aren't a boring guy, you shouldn't have issues at all

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