I ended those first weeks with many hopes, a general bitterness, a lot of memories, a few hangovers and a decent amount of day 2s to organize.

If you want to check my journal, you can find it here, and I hope to update it soon

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Anyway, I have a logistical problem that I'm sure many of you already had before me: I have more dates planned than days of the week available.

How do you suggest to define priorities?
Should I have more day 2s in the same day, or be more selective about them?
If I'm forced to postpone or ditch some meetings, which way do you suggest in order to have the chance to meet them again, and most importantly to do it in a decent and nice way?

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LOL. This is what you call a real quality problem.

The priorities are what YOU want them to be. No one can really define your priorities, but feel free to think about them, write them down, scratch out and change them.

Without knowing the quality of girls you're supposed to be meeting, kinda hard to say whether or not you need to be more selective. That being said, I think 1 day 2 per day is good, and possibly you can re-schedule with the ones that are lower down on your list.

If you need to postpone, tell them EARLY, that you got caught up, you're really sorry, you're going to have to postpone for another time.

You are the only person who is going to put yourself first. Take care of yourself, your life and everything else will mold itself around you. At one point dating, sex, and alcohol were messing up with my daily activities. Ever since then I have a planner and I plan things out for the week and check them off when I am finished. As long as you hold yourself accountable, you will find out what you really find most important to you.

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