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PostPosted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 9:38 pm 
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in a bar a girl was teasing me a lot. i could take it as she was flirting and maybe she was but she took it too far and would not drop it. what is a good thing to do in such cases. i could only think of either getting angry and kicking off at her, or just keep laughing at myself.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 9:41 pm 
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It's called "banter". Fire back your own teasing.

Her: How old are you? I bet you're old.
You: How much do you weigh?

Her: Aww, that jacket sure is...something.
You: What happened to your hair?

Her: Are you always so shy?
You: You have something on your lip. Wait, never mind. It's just a pimple.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 9:46 pm 
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If a girl gets to the point of getting on your nerves, tell her it was nice meeting her and move on. It's about having fun and if someone takes "fun" too far where it isn't fun anymore then you don't have to continue on. It's a bar and there will be other women to flirt with.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 11:50 pm 
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If a girl gets to the point of getting on your nerves, tell her it was nice meeting her and move on. It's about having fun and if someone takes "fun" too far where it isn't fun anymore then you don't have to continue on. It's a bar and there will be other women to flirt with.
But but you don't want to fail her shit test.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 12:03 am 
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If a girl gets to the point of getting on your nerves, tell her it was nice meeting her and move on. It's about having fun and if someone takes "fun" too far where it isn't fun anymore then you don't have to continue on. It's a bar and there will be other women to flirt with.
But but you don't want to fail her shit test.
What is it that you guys are saying that gets you to make a woman test you like this?

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 12:09 am 
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If a girl gets to the point of getting on your nerves, tell her it was nice meeting her and move on. It's about having fun and if someone takes "fun" too far where it isn't fun anymore then you don't have to continue on. It's a bar and there will be other women to flirt with.
But but you don't want to fail her shit test.
What is it that you guys are saying that gets you to make a woman test you like this?
It was a joke


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 12:18 am 
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It was a joke
Whew. Lol...but you realize that there is a huge part of the community that does feel that it would be a shit test and blame the girl when it happens?

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 1:59 pm 
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Whew. Lol...but you realize that there is a huge part of the community that does feel that it would be a shit test and blame the girl when it happens?
Yeah absolutely. Many of us only got introduced to this through Style and Mystery with their negs and DHV's. Guys do well with this stuff as "bad game is better than no game" and stick to it.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 10:19 am 
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If a girl gets to the point of getting on your nerves, tell her it was nice meeting her and move on. It's about having fun and if someone takes "fun" too far where it isn't fun anymore then you don't have to continue on. It's a bar and there will be other women to flirt with.
Yes. Abundance answers damn near everything. Including this.


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Flirting is not "making you look silly"

Making you look silly suggest she's probably immature and has no respect for your person or presence. And wouldn't the fact that you had no defense, nor could you think of a better way to handle yourself suggest that you are not someone that demands respect from other?

More than likely it is because you're still skating within your comfort zones and haven't taken the necessary steps; many which this forum suggest(i.e approaching women), to better yourself?

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