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To spare you the story about this one girl that's so special...
Is it better to forget her and move on somehow or, option B) to work so hard on yourself and improve so much until you get her. It's like 'The Great Gatsby'. It motivates me so much, I mean, if I knew for sure that I have a shot with her, like, do this and that and you will ger her, that's a way to get me into the gym, to eat right, to improve fashion...
Never go all in on one woman before she has had the talk with you, no matter how special you think she is as she will smell it and run. Treat all women you date the same (i.e. no special SPAM)
Try and date other women, as then your judgement also won't be as clouded
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