Being great and terrible with eye contact



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PostPosted: Thu Nov 02, 2017 7:55 pm 
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So 2 situations:
The 1st: I meet a girl or someone introduces me to a girl. I can make eye contact without problem, I am calm when talking.
The 2nd: I am sitting and there is a girl sitting against me (university, train....), I get nervous and I can't make eye contact to save my life. Another example is when I am walking against a girl... just can't.
I am explaining it to myself like this - in the first type of situatons, its not only eye contact, but also communicating and touching and in the second type of situations, its only eye contact.


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So 2 situations:
The 1st: I meet a girl or someone introduces me to a girl. I can make eye contact without problem, I am calm when talking.
The 2nd: I am sitting and there is a girl sitting against me (university, train....), I get nervous and I can't make eye contact to save my life. Another example is when I am walking against a girl... just can't.
I am explaining it to myself like this - in the first type of situatons, its not only eye contact, but also communicating and touching and in the second type of situations, its only eye contact.

Simple fix here.

Approach.. Introduce yourself.. And then you're back at the first situation in which Eye contact is no longer a problem.

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