hey yall
i have no aproach anxiaty
i just cant seem to keep the convo interesting
always when i tell a story the girl looks at me with these big fake interesting eyes, and at the end she yawns

also i dont know how to leave, my gut says get out of here but i want to be nice

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

No one is really a bad conversationalist some people just don't know how to go about it. Here is a simple technique I give to a lot of people that I have have cultivated from personal experience which makes a night and day difference.

You could say something as simple as "You want to know a secret about girls with red dresses?" if she's wearing a red dress or find something else about her and keep her curious.

Leave a lot of things open-ended in the discussion for her to be curious about (women are naturally curious). Make sure you give away as little at a time as possible so she has something to be curious about and get involved with. Also fill whatever you say with colorful emotion to make her constantly feel.

Instead making her sit there listening to you rant "I went to Vencice, Italy it was beautiful. I just spent two weeks there and we did X1, X2, X3, X4, X5."

Try like this...

You: “I just got back to the States”
Her: “Oh cool! Where did you go?”
You: “I went to Italy it was beautiful – We went hiking on some of the most amazing golden brown mountains in the world. there was gorgeous fields and mountains and immaculate architecture that just swept me away like nothing has ever done in my life.”
Her: “That sounds really amazing. What part did you go to?”
You: “Venice, I got to do some really wild stuff”
Her: “Cool! like what?”

It's even more ideal if you can start on something, get a woman wrapped in it and then end a convo and leave her wondering about how it ended(and thinking about you)

With this you can make a conversation that would otherwise be boring (you ranting about your trip) into an engaging and interactive story which she feels like she Is having input on even if you’re really controlling the conversation.

Another great advantage to this is that you leave her wondering (woman can’t walk away from curiousity like men can) and she will feel compelled to act upon that curiosity.

Drop being polite and nice - attractive women have enough guys to be "nice" to them (are you being nice or afraid - if it was a fat girl would you be "nice" and stay?) - be different and show that you have your own life and a willingness to end the conversation first, she is not your 1st priority and is just another part of YOUR life.

- Chris

hell dude, if your having trouble getting the convo started, i would build a little more attraction. do a dhv story, give her a neg and do something cool like a magic trick or esp trick to capture her attention. once you have her mesmorized, you can say the dumbest thing (which i do alot, not intentionally) and she will still be zoned with you.

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When you are the prize, you are like a diamond. If you allow her to become the prize, you become a cubix zarconia.

When u tell a story. Put in questions/thinking words like Have you ever do this/been there/done that. Then pace her along like
"U shud try this experience. U wud not want to MISS it."

Take her thru the story, then say it makes you feel good. Do u feel it? Then she will connect & feel ur story. Try to keep ur sentence short so not too bore her.

Mix it with PATTERN words, to get her to really feel it & get wet.


This stuff is on fast seduction. Read up more.

If u really can't tell a story or too nervous, then just tease her (cocky & funny) or neg her and use the BUT... phrase like

U know thats a nice shirt ur wearing BUT...

She ask: but what?

Ans: I tell u why later at my house

She will follow u, to find the answer.

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1. How to get the HB chick at work, i don't know but want to get ta know?

I like that, that's a cool answer, and the bit at the end is so true, some nights I could do with a stick to beat off all the jerks who continually pester you with the same old crap. I mean really, think about it, for a woman, finding any old bloke is not hard, finding the right bloke is.