Is she playing hard to get or Using me?



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:48 am 
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Ok so I used to be friends with Hb 10 when I was in Elementary school for about a year we were never really close. Years pass I don't see her for years (I totally forget who she is) I see her about 2 years ago when I start University one of her close friends is my close friend. She reintroduces us I notice she gives me tons of iois hair playing lip biting etc and is very flirty with me.

Turns out she has a Bf for 2 years and the relationship continues until about a month ago. I don't really care about the girl she just keeps giving me mixed signals and I want to lay her before I transfer to another University in a different state in a week. Anyway I see her about 5 months ago and flirt with her she flirts back hard and gives iois when I try to kino escalate she backs off (having a bf) I ask her out again through text she makes excuses so I guess what ever on to the next one.

Then randomly on my birthday (a couple of months later) she puts a picture of us up on her instagram and wishes me a happy birthday and this is odd because her bf is very strict shes never put a pic up with a guy before and there are other guys shes close with that shes never posted pictures with and in this photo we look very flirty and touchy. I find this very odd my friend whos friends with her tells me her Bf got mad and made her take it down and the girl told my friend she thinks im really hot.

After she breaks up with her bf I don't pay attention to her on social media so I don't notice till 2 weeks later when I do I decide ill try again she puts a picture on snapchat about her saying she wants someone to come to the bar with her I tease her about how Id come and how shed hit on me. She teases back we go back and fourth I get caught up with preparing for the move and forget about her she messages me the next day with a random meme I decide to flirt with her via text and ask her out to watch a new movie she says she has a lunch date with her friends and cant I know this is a iod (because no ones ever to busy she could of said another day) so I don't waste my time and reply oh well suit your self and move on to the next girl even though she asked me a question maybe trying to keep the convo going saying but why that movie in particular I don't like it.

Everyone I know tells me they think she has a thing for me but I think shes trying to use me to inflate her ego because (not trying to sound vain) but im a pretty good looking guy and she seems insecure, so I totally forget about her and go to the next girl I secure a date go out with this other girl I bring a friend she brings a friend I go to this club which im knowing for going to every week and hb10 would make jokes about how I go there all the time on that certain day and the hb 10 is known for hating and not going to it in years. I randomly see hb 10 she approaches me and says hi and trys to dance with me I ignore her and go with my date as I am about to leave hb 10 is just with her friends ones I don't know and she calls me over I go and she puts her right ar, behind my back on my waist and puts her left arm on my abdomen and starts felling me up and down infront of my date and her friend as she rests her head on my shoulder as if im her property she introduces me to her friend as if she was showing me off like i was a trophy even my date and her friend thought what the hell I stepped away and started talking to my date again and flirting with my date and then HB 10 tells me oh my friend is here to drop me home and says his name which is a guy. :lol:

Is she trying to use me to inflate her ego or is she playing hard to get because I want to lay her and can't tell the difference I don't want to waste my time and pursue her while there are other girls out there but I have been wanting to lay Hb10 for a while now and I am leaving so I feel like its the perfect opportunity to so what do you guys think? Was I not trying hard enough with her and should I try one more time or is shes playing hard to get or is she just using me to inflate her ego?


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 3:37 am 
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She knows you were into her and likes the attention she received from you. Your date threatens that.

So did your date turn up her interest in you after that happened?

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 11:59 am 
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Yeah the competition raised my value for both women. :lol:


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 15, 2017 3:48 pm 
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Its clearly both bro.

However, you can monetize the attention and use it to potentially bang her, but i can promise you that it will not in the slightest bit be worth all of the effort that its going to take. My advice to you would be to completely put this girl on the back burner unless she starts talking to you with completely cooperation. I.E... She suggest hanging out, and you invite her over for a movie. Don't go on any dates, not even a walk in the park, and don't spend any money, unless its for the uber to get her to leave from your place(and i'd even suggest not even doing that).

The girl just got done playing jealous games on social media with her boyfriend, she ain't all of a sudden serious or worth the time and energy. The biggest issue for you here is that you still want to bang her, despite you knowing she's using you, toying with you, and wasting your time for her own benefit. That fact that your self worth is even willing to allow this, speaks volumes. They ain't no about of attractiveness thats worth your self respect. There will be more hot chicks that are more cooperative, so long as you're strong enough to let the non cooperative ones go. The esteem boost you get from walking away will draw them near.

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