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They have to be treated slightly differently to get results
Can you elaborate on this a bit because this seems like an issue when it comes to the approach and getting across your intent. I'll use two of your statements that make me believe that.
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IOIs are the same.
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A lot of guys can't read the signals between buddies and sexual interest.
To me, this seems like waiting for her permission to go from buddy vibe to a sexual vibe. One of the bad things that this community has done is overblown the importance of IOI's to gauge interest when it is far more important to treat a woman like you are attracted to her. If she is treating you like a buddy, one of two things is happening:
1. You haven't expressed your interest in her, or
2. you've accepted the buddy role.
Here's my point. If you establish that your interest in her is based on attraction to her, you don't have to play women differently based on the type of girl they are because you have set her expectations in the beginning so signals seeking permission and IOI's aren't something that you need to move things forward. Instead, it's her following your lead or falling into your frame.
But again, you may want to just elaborate on what you mean because I'm assuming your mindset and I can very well be wrong.