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PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2017 12:05 am 
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Synopsis met this women at a salon after she did my hair. Number closed on her and have had some text banter in the last 2 days.

After some flirty banter back and forth I said, " We'll hang out sooner than later".

She replies, "What if I don't want to hang out?" Now clearly she is shit testing me , but what's a good line? Normally I am witty , but I am interested to hear what other people say before I reply.

Your thoughts?


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2017 1:12 am 
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Synopsis met this women at a salon after she did my hair. Number closed on her and have had some text banter in the last 2 days.

After some flirty banter back and forth I said, " We'll hang out sooner than later".

She replies, "What if I don't want to hang out?" Now clearly she is shit testing me , but what's a good line? Normally I am witty , but I am interested to hear what other people say before I reply.

Your thoughts?

1. You get the girl's number.
2. You text, "hey, this is Chase".
3. she says, "Hi Chase."
4. You text: "Let's grab a drink at Bar X, 9pm on tuesday".

And then you go back to your career goals.

Two days of text banter is too cute, too try-hard. And "we'll hang out sooner than later" is a passive-aggressive ask-out.

Be congruent with your desires, and go for what you want right away. You're building this girl up on a pedestal and tip-toeing around your intentions with useless banter. She picked up on your weakness and fucked with you with the "what if I don't want to hang out" line.

Get to the point with women. Respect their time, and yours.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2017 5:05 pm 
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I ended up throwing it back at her with a "what do you want".

She ended up saying just kidding etc. Also, this girl is a HB7-8 with insecurities issues. Been throwing her bones left and right and last night she started sexting and shit. Meeting up with her tonight. Normally I don't do the text banter so much , but I knew it would be easier for her to convey herself because she is a shy chick,

Anyhow, thanks for the reply Arch you always got good stuff.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2017 8:51 pm 
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Sounds like a positive result.

I like women who get snarky like that (shows a bit of fire).

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 11, 2017 1:23 am 
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Update: Went to brewery with her last night and headed back to her place and slept with her. Win win


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