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Synopsis met this women at a salon after she did my hair. Number closed on her and have had some text banter in the last 2 days.
After some flirty banter back and forth I said, " We'll hang out sooner than later".
She replies, "What if I don't want to hang out?" Now clearly she is shit testing me , but what's a good line? Normally I am witty , but I am interested to hear what other people say before I reply.
Your thoughts?
1. You get the girl's number.
2. You text, "hey, this is Chase".
3. she says, "Hi Chase."
4. You text: "Let's grab a drink at Bar X, 9pm on tuesday".
And then you go back to your career goals.
Two days of text banter is too cute, too try-hard. And "we'll hang out sooner than later" is a passive-aggressive ask-out.
Be congruent with your desires, and go for what you want right away. You're building this girl up on a pedestal and tip-toeing around your intentions with useless banter. She picked up on your weakness and fucked with you with the "what if I don't want to hang out" line.
Get to the point with women. Respect their time, and yours.