Okay here is the story.

I went to the library to study. I knew of a female friend that was there, so as we were walking towards her table I saw that her side was a mess, I said digusting I am not sitting next to you. This was in order to sit next to the smokin SHB 100 on the same table.

The pivot shows me something she got for one of her friends. A lighter with Manroe naked. I turn to the HB and say, listen would you rather get this as a gift or a big fat white buddah. She laughs and say 100% the lighter. I make some small convo, like you look stressed when is your exam blah blah. She is doing the same program so I try and get into her mindset. I neg her about being too noisy. When she asks us to keep an eye out for her things I said "sure but you owe me one"

The two of us leave to go out for a break, I ask her if she can keep an eye out. She says she is going to be leaving soon. I say "do you use facebook" she says "yea, let me write my name for you, its long."

So I got the facebook, now what do I do?

I would first visit her site so she can see you have been there.
then maybe she answers to this with writing you.

if she doesnt anwer write her an make some comments about her pictures..
then she will surely reply
important is that you should´nt answer too fast, make it look like your thoughts were not only arround her.

Should I re use the opener?

Some thoughts I have are
You know you should have said you prefered the bhudda that way I could have taken the lighter.

Or
Hey noisy, are you trying to be bad ass in the picture?

I would say the second one is much better

Oh really? Any other suggestions?

just do the comment about her pics and dont write too much
its better to meet her again, if write too much you may have less stuff to talk about when you meet her
you have more possibilitys when your face to face like starting kino

fuck it she has a guy

fuck it she has a guy. i hate when they dont explicitly post "in a relationship:

oh sorry, next girl!

Dude relax. So what if she has a guy.. no big deal, if you can show your AMOG qualities etc to her, then it is possible that she can become attracted to you. She OBVIOUSLY liked you enough to give you her Facebook. SO use it to your advantage, even if you can't get with her, you can at least LJBF her and you can use her in the future as YOUR pivot to game other girls or even HER friends!

As for the Facebook, I personally would NOT ADD Her as a friend. Let her add you! Send her a message to initiate the conversation again.. you don't need to be her FB friend to send her a message... be funny and continue where you left off.

After a few liners back and forth, she SHOULD do either A) ADD YOU as a friend or B) ask you why you haven't added her.

Just my thoughts. Good luck.

Shit man, that would have been better. I added her way too soon!

errr so what would you suggest from the two

I was thinking of writing on her wall "you know I was hoping you would catch my hints and pick the buddha that way I could have taken the lighter! " or " hey noisy, are you trying to be badass in those pictures?"

That’s all I can think of, and ideas?

The situation in brief . I was at the library and my female friend had a lighter which she was going to gift a friend with. She asked me if I liked it, I turned over to the girl next to me and used a situational opinion opener " which would you rather get a lighter with Marilyn Monroe or a big fat white Buddha? " I talked for maybe 2-3 mins and facebook closed. This girl is a SHB model, I didnt neg enough. I called her noisy when she ripped up paper.

Ya you should have defin waited... because once you ADD a girl, there's no real reason to continue conversation..... whereas if you message her, she needs to respond. I've done this a few times, and adding a girl doesn't neccessarily help the PUA because a lot of girls are just facebook junkies and add everyone, etc..

I personally wouldn't write on her wall, escpecially since you said she has a BF... Don't comment on the pics, bad idea in my opinion, and also the other comment about the lighter I think is a little weak aswell.

You want to say something that will entice her to WANT to respond to you. Don't poke her. Send a message to her, your goal is to meet her again Face to Face, then you can continue where you left off, and she can get to know you better and how funny you are, etc.. Keep with it, if it doesn't work out, no big deal, be friends with her and stay cool, the next time you're in a social setting, she can be your social proof and you can meet other girls through her.

Good luck.

A lot of good tips. I wish you posted earlier. I wrote on her wall yesterday, she was online today but didnt respond.

Live and learn.

Exactly. Not to worry, just make sure now that you are cool around her, you're likely to bump into her again at the library or wherever. If I were you, I would take the thought of trying to "game" her OUT of your mind... for now at least. Convey that you are a cool guy and not needy, and that you're exciting. All women want to be in an EXCITING relationship with an EXCITING guy.. its that simple.

If she sees you at a campus bar or somewhere and you are socialable (ie. talking to everyone.. hopefully HB's aswell) she may become attracted.

Do not msg/write on her wall, unless she contacts you, and even if she does, do not respond right away and make sure you're strategic in your response. Otherwise wait until you bump into her again.