I got this girls # last year at a festival on a Saturday night, we ended up making out and making drunk plans to go out on friday... long story short she bailed and time just went on.

I got to this festival (again) and see her there again. We talk later into the evening and seems to be going decently well. She tells me I "freaked her out" last year. I'm assuming because I possibly pushed for the date too quickly.
Anyways she gives me her # again and says she'd be down for drinks (again), and we make plans to go out for friday (again)


So week goes on, were texting every 2 days, just small talk, no mention of going out on Friday ( by me or her). In my head it sucks because I feel like I'm being reserve the way I text her. I feel like I'm playing not too lose instead of playing to win, almost coming off boring. So its 7 days later after i get her # on Saturday... we start talking and this our convo.

Me-Hey how was your friday

Her-It was great. I came home from work ate dinner and went to bed early. Did you end up going to buy stuff for your condo?

Me-Nice sounds relaxing. No I actually ending up putting some finishing touches on the 50 shades of grey bathroom lol. (I made a reference to it last Saturday that she was into so figured make a joke out of it)

Me-Have you been to the Curtis hotel yet?

Her-lol

Her- No I havn't !! I was just talking to Brittany about it the other Day.

Her- Have you been?

Me- Yeah i went there last night after dinner, it was amazing.

Me- Any exciting weekend plans?

Her-Im not sure. Im currently making zucchini brad.

Me-Lol sounds like you're living it up

Me- Have you ever played 21 questions?



The last text im face palming myself..... My mindset was to maybe get her to open a little more via texting. Try to get her more comfortable with me and get to know eachother better so I can attempt to make drink plans with her again. This current convo responses were within 15-20 minutes and now its been almost an hour since the 21 questions text. Should i just pull the plug on this one and say I'm a bigger fluke then the buffalo bills in the superbowl?

Thanks fellas

So you've already kissed this girl and decided instead of kissing her again to "talk late into the evening"? Nice friend zone move.


Why?

A man texts with a purpose. Male orbiters text her with small talk.
lol.
A dominant male texts with a purpose.

Why do men do this?

You don't give a flying fuck about her friday, you just want to have sex with her (at least for now). Be congruent and arrange a meet up.


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this might be one of the most boring text exchanges ever posted here.


HOLY SHIT this is a weak ass text exchange. Grow a pair of balls.


Huh? a man with a life texts with a purpose and arranges a meet up, and talks at the meet up.

You're acting like a nervous woman, and she the man.

Get to the point. Ask her out.

But now you've already asked her two idiotic questions, so popping a date invite would look needy as fuck double texting two questions.

You gotta wait this one out, and be a man next time.

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